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Intruding on marriage?
| Mon, 10-05-2009 - 10:02pm |
Food for thought...
But like the saying, "You either see the glass half full or half empty" this depends on how you look at the situation.
Do you view the yourself as intruding on your AP's marriage, or how the BS says, "We're the third party" of their marriage... or view it as the WS walked out on the marriage?
I'm interested to see what everyone's views are on this.
Edited 10/5/2009 10:07 pm ET by lostintransition

Okay, I'll bite!
I definitely do not see myself as intruding on his M...he has no M! Seriously, and I've mentioned this before, but NOBODY ever sees him with his W...and haven't
hi Ladies,
i'm sure the replies to this will depend on one's own situation, and everyone has a different view on this sensitive subject.
In my case, the answer is Yes. I think that i do intrude in AP's marriage. I make it bearable. He said i am his "life raft". If i was out of the equation i'm sure things would be different, not sure HOW different but different in some way.
And yes, he DOES intrude in my marriage. If he wasn't in the picture my marriage would be different i am certain of it. Probably better. Or if not better, at least i'd be looking for solutions to problems that we're having. Or we may have decided that it doesn't work between us. Either way, it'd be different.
I think the OM/OW is portrayed in a very stereotypical way by the BS' stories that i have come across, and very often it is far away from the reality.
Hugs,
Sunshine
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Sunshine
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Hi,
My (stbx) H walked away without a fight too. It's all hindsight now of course...but I wonder ~ if he had fought for me, would I have given him a chance? Just not sure.
I can't blame him for walking away though...what is a man supposed to do when he's faced with the fact that his wife is in love with somebody else?
benska