Is it cheating when you r seperated

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Registered: 03-29-2004
Is it cheating when you r seperated
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Thu, 04-01-2004 - 7:15am
Me and my H are seperated, living in 2 different states now. I am waiting on him to make up his mind whether he wants to join me here. However this was all after he lied, and dodged and cover up seeing another girl and bringing her to my house. He says it was just an EA but I dont believe that. I met a guy here and he was us to get together and I am seriously thinking about it. Since me and my H are seperated, he cheated and can't decide if he wants me I just am really mixed up about this.
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Registered: 02-03-2004
Thu, 04-01-2004 - 10:13am
Hi, Keep... Personally, I would get one mess cleaned up and closed before starting another one. Sounds like you're still conflicted over H and his actions. Why add confusion to the mix?
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Registered: 03-29-2004
Thu, 04-01-2004 - 11:57am
you are right. However, with my H not barely talking to me kind of hard to do much in fixing that. Just really feeling in limbo right now with that.