is it going to the end?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-26-2007
is it going to the end?
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Sun, 01-04-2009 - 11:24pm
I am thinking of ending my A. I do not think it is worth of what i am risking for it and all the headaches it's been giving me. I am obsessed with my AP. I wait for his phone calls around the time he should be calling me, sometimes, he does, sometimes he does not. My major concern right now is lack of time for it. I need to keep myself together, to concentrate on work and school, I've been taking on additional responsibilities and shortening my time frames for school. I can not afford to sit on this board several hours daily because i am a mess ( i love the board and people here, who are always ready to offer support, but you ladies know what i mean). I told him before that i would prefer everything straight if we had to end it, but the way he is going and the person he is, i know i can not do that with him. But i need to either take it to only and only physical level with no phone calls in between meeting each other weekly, or nothing at all. I really do not get anything out of it......Is there anyone else who has a new year resolution as ending an A?
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2007
Sun, 01-04-2009 - 11:56pm

Hi Boo -


Unfortunately - none of us can answer that question - only you can do that.


You know the saying around here - when the pain outweighs the pleasure of the A - it's time to get out- well from reading your post - I'd say you are there.

lightning in my heart

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-26-2007
Mon, 01-05-2009 - 12:00am

awh, thanks tgrbabe for your kind reply! I know I just need to be strong to end it.....thanks a million


HUGS