It happened again...

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-26-2008
It happened again...
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Sat, 10-04-2008 - 1:03pm
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2008
Sat, 10-04-2008 - 4:15pm
Jupiter, just forget about him. I know it's easier said then done, but you've gone for 2 months without contacting him, why to start it now? You don't need a closure to move on. You're hurting, don't hurt yourself more by listening to his lies. Best of luck to you!
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-12-2008
Sun, 10-05-2008 - 9:17am

I agree, don't contact him! He's hurt you one too many times and obviously knows how you feel and what you'll put up with him from. He is always calling the shots it seems and that's not fair to you. You can do so much better with what you have to offer! Don't waste your energy and time on a scumbag like him! I know you're hurting sweetie, but IT WILL get better and you WILL find someone who loves you and you will get what you give and trust me Jupiter, you were giving your whole heart to this man and he took advantage of that, you don't want that happening again. It's like that saying, fool me once - shame on you, feel me twice - shame on me.

Goodluck!! We're here for you darling!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2007
Sun, 10-05-2008 - 10:14am

I really feel your pain but you are better off without him.You will be saying this yourself after you have greived for him and see the bright light!

Good luck to you. go to ' breaking up is hard to do'.it is a very helpful board.