Is it just sex?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2008
Is it just sex?
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Thu, 09-04-2008 - 3:53pm

My AP and I met, then began emailing, then phone calls.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 11:12pm

I'll respond *raising hand*


I think this is all about him.


iVillage Member
Registered: 06-14-2008
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 11:26pm

I have to agree with clarity. From what you've said, it sounds like this relationship is all about him. And yes, sex.

As for the emotional support, it does sound like there is some of that, but in all honesty, not anything extensive. And he is avoiding talking about any kind of "feelings". If I were you I would let this one go.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2006
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 8:56am
i kind of have to agree with clarity and kari on this...the only thing you might wanna try is not being tooo available to him all the time and see what happens.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2008
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 9:06am
I've already started doing that.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 10:31am

Our


iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2008
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 10:55am
Clarity, that is so true just as the saying goes..."when you lie with dogs you end up with flees."
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2008
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 12:20pm

This guy is in for sex only.Its nothing unusual,tho.Most guys would love to have an extra,Even single guys ( me included ! ha ha ha).
Without being too specific, she is the only woman i feel something more than sexual desire.I have a flaming desire to know her ( very unlike me ), hear every single word she says... I want to look in her eyes and read her entire history ( yes, she has something behind those gorgeous, dreamy,half happy and half sad eyes).

Have i fallen in love with her? i dont know.i dont want to,honestly.because if i do, ......but i am not.so why think so hard.............

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 12:20pm

When you were discussing receiving


iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2006
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 3:29pm
well..see...he said it all in his email..he wants you to stroke his ego..he wants to get under your skin so you will email him back telling him that it isn't true..he is all you think about..you look forward to emailing him..he is the man of your dreams etc etc etc...or whatever you would type back in answer.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2008
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 3:49pm
I ignored his email until late this afternoon and then only emailed that I've been busy and didn't add anything else to it.