It is over

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-14-2005
It is over
2
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 12:00am

Well I had posted earlier in the folder "On the fence".


I can't sleep.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-22-2008
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 4:21am

You were/are in a FWB affair.

Edwina
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2008
Wed, 09-10-2008 - 11:51am

I am so sorry you are hurting. But as we all know we can be blind in any R and only see what we want to. As much as you are hurting right now try to look at yourself and see what made you ignore the signs, cause they were there all along. Believe me with XAP everyone told me not to mess with him, I chose to. I was told what his behavior meant that I was just a piece of booty, but no I chose to think I was so much more. Why beacuse I wanted so much for someone to love and want me. I was separating from my H, I was alone, it hurt, I thought that would fix it. It did not I got used, BUT I learned from it. I am not saying it is your fault but learn from this very painful thing so hitory does not repeat itself.


And you said this:


I tried to hide my hurt and I believe I succeeded.


Why do that, who cares what he thinks? Let the jerk know how his "dark" side hurts people. it may not make a difference to the next poor lady but do not hide your feelings from this a hole. Pleas ehoney take care of yourself and let em know if you need anything.







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