Is it over?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2009
Is it over?
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Tue, 08-11-2009 - 7:13pm

I don't even know where to begin this post. I have tried to be very realistic about this relationship. really. It began quickly and it feels like it is ending quicker. more like a one night stand. and I guess that is what hurts me the most.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2009
Wed, 08-19-2009 - 9:52am

Good idea or not, I ended up writing him again. It wasn' t nearly as painful to do so by the light of day. I did ask him if I have done something wrong to make him mad at me. and said I just gotta know where he is coming from besides being busy at work.


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Registered: 05-21-2009
Wed, 08-19-2009 - 1:35pm
By continually e-mailing him and asking if you've done anything wrong you make yourself look needy!
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2009
Wed, 08-19-2009 - 1:54pm
Writing in a journal really helps. I started a few days ago and I'm finding that I'm not so angry and sad. I had to get my feelings out in a good way not an explosion which was bound to happen. Its easier to keep control this way.
Scar
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Registered: 08-03-2009
Wed, 08-19-2009 - 2:39pm

Yes, I know I appear needy right now, probably because I am needy right now (due to other circumstances not affair) and that might make him run, but if so I want him to tell me that.

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Registered: 07-24-2005
Thu, 08-20-2009 - 10:33pm

I'm sorry you may not get the closure you seek. Yes, please do not write again.


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