Did you read the replies to the thread below about "when they are supposed to call and don't"? Because I think everyone goes through busy and stressful times of their life. My MM and I haven't talked for 3 weeks now, and before that it was about 10 weeks NC. He says work has been really rough and he hasn't been well physically. We have been seeing each other regularly for 2 years, so its been difficult for me to get thru this time. After 2 years you feel like you know the person and wouldn't be left in the cold like this. But I try to understand that sh** happens, and sometimes things & people get put on hold. He told me, he didn't plan on not seeing me, but due to the circumstances it happened. So I think I am "on hold" for the time being, until things get better for him. I try to remember the good times and hope there are more in our future. Best wishes to you too.
hey sean -- my MM contacts me more now than ever before! he was on vacation last week and called every day, sometimes twice a day.
and the first time we could see each other was monday so he rearranged his schedule to work late (because i had to). MM picked me up and drove me home - 90 minutes of fun and games! and tuesday morning we met for more fun and games before work.
sorry if you're experiencing less contact. that's not fun!
Just speaking generally here, but this IS a busy time of year. From September through the end of the year there seems to always be something going on, especially for people with children. I know we don't even have children and every weekend is filled with stuff we have to do. So you may be on to something here...
i agree, its xmas coming, and my OM has 2 little ones and a mom who will be having her last xmas with him, so he has been super distant. don't worry, sounds líke you were solid before, so once things cool he will be back.. me on the other hand.. not so sure.. byee
My OM is never THAT predictable. He always has a reason for being seasonal, LOL. Anyway, I feel for you girl. Seems like we should be heading to the ETA board as well.
Dusty
and the first time we could see each other was monday so he rearranged his schedule to work late (because i had to). MM picked me up and drove me home - 90 minutes of fun and games! and tuesday morning we met for more fun and games before work.
sorry if you're experiencing less contact. that's not fun!
gurl