Its been a long time since I have posted

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Registered: 05-24-2003
Its been a long time since I have posted
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Fri, 04-30-2004 - 5:55pm
Hi all!

It has been months since I have posted here. So for all of you whom I do not recognize, my story is summarized as follows; been in my ema for 3 years. We work together, he is executive level and I am senior management. We work for same firm in nearby cities. I am M and so is he. Never will get to be together exclusively. Hard to deal with, but have adjusted. Waited 2 years to say those wonderful 3 words. Well worth the wait. We say (and mean it) all of the time. We see each other about every 2 weeks, talk each day. We just spent 3 wonderful days together on an out of town business related trip. I am used to the ups and downs and missing him, etc. But these past few days (sigh..........) were so perfect and so great that I feel that I am suffering from withdraw from him. I love this wonderful man so very much! I know that it sounds cliche, but he really is my soul mate. We just love each other to death, but didn't find each other soon enough. Now life got in our way.

You know, even when you think that you have this thing under control, it jumps back up to bite you in the butt. Words of encouragement please!

Missing him so terribly that it hurts,

RH

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Fri, 04-30-2004 - 6:46pm
Welcome back Red Harts. I remember reading your posts from last year. Glad to see you back. I am sure we have all been in your shoes, that bitter sweet feeling of somebody you love leave. Hang in there, it just is hard on some days. But isn't life the same?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 04-30-2004 - 9:24pm
Oh RH,

Isn't it wonderful to know you've met your soulmate? To know the feeling of loving him, that you are of his heart?

It *is* difficult to blend back into the other part of your life, I know! But then, if you didn't miss him so terribly that it hurts, you wouldn't love him so deeply.

Ride the wave for all it's worth, and when it crashes, know another one is soon behind. And, know we're here to keep you company ashore in the meantime!

Meow