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It's real...flirtation....now more
| Fri, 05-28-2004 - 4:08pm |
Hi! This is my very first time on here...I have decided to get some help from some of you because I need possible answers to help me along my affair. I have been married to my husband for 2 years. Together, we have 2 children together. We have been together for 4 1/2 years. We have had our ups and downs...more downs than ups! Before we were married he decided to leave me and our then 1 week old daughter because it was too much for him to handle. We had a 4 month break from each other...then we got back together and he decided to cheat on me 2 times. He then proposed to me 6 months later with a promise ring given to him by the girl he was cheating on me with. NICE! I was so upset. I thought the only way to change our relationship was to get married (but with different rings, of course). Over the past 2 years, he has put me down, called me names, used our marriage as a competition with each other, and he has verbally abused our children. Whenever I would tried to talk to him he would yell, and accuse me of cheating on him. I will admit though that I haven't been nice back to him...I have called him names just as well. We have many differences....music, food, raising chilren....etc...
Anyways, about 2 months ago, I met a really nice man whom is 2 years older than me (29)...single, never been married, no kids. He has shown a great deal of interest in me and really wants a to take things slow to develope into a relationship (serious) with me. I love everything about him. Last night we had sex...or as he liked to call made love...hot damn...what a man!!! I have never ever ever had it so good, so gentle, and so sexual! My H is a 2 minute please him only man. I want to develope a stronger relationship with the OM. I am so confused....I am so scared....I really need some advice....as I have no mom to help me with this. My H knows about OM....I told him...What should I do...I want what's best for the kids, and for myself....HELP
Anyways, about 2 months ago, I met a really nice man whom is 2 years older than me (29)...single, never been married, no kids. He has shown a great deal of interest in me and really wants a to take things slow to develope into a relationship (serious) with me. I love everything about him. Last night we had sex...or as he liked to call made love...hot damn...what a man!!! I have never ever ever had it so good, so gentle, and so sexual! My H is a 2 minute please him only man. I want to develope a stronger relationship with the OM. I am so confused....I am so scared....I really need some advice....as I have no mom to help me with this. My H knows about OM....I told him...What should I do...I want what's best for the kids, and for myself....HELP

Sounds to me that your marraige is over - sounds like a young immature mistake. You dont love your H and probably should divorce him. And he certainly does not seem like he wants to be settled down. Get out now while you are young - It is not easy - but if you have feelings and/or yearnings for another man and are acting on them - let the marraige go. You still have time Let it go..............
Sun