It's time to pony up - NC for a month

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Registered: 04-01-2004
It's time to pony up - NC for a month
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Tue, 04-06-2004 - 2:15am
here we goooooooooooo

don't get to see him until May 1st he is taking a "work related family vacation" ---ughh dread hate his job at times...they call at weird hours etc - he would have to quit that job if he was my H !!

let's see how cranky my "I need an objective opinion" posts can get LOL !!!!


no email...

no phone....

nooooothhhhhhhiiiiinnnnngggggggg but my thoughts

One day down...like 25 to go !!!!

Glad I have other hobbies besides MM !!!

LOL

Kikki

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Registered: 04-02-2004
Tue, 04-06-2004 - 8:23am
Kikki

just keep talking. Every one of those 25 days if you have to. It doesn't matter. just keep talking, keep posting. Don't be alone with your thoughts. If you get sad, post. If you get angry, post. If ou get confused and frustrated, post. Just keep talking and you'll make it through. I am on my fourth week of NC and so I am right there with you.

You always have a hand to hold.

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Registered: 02-16-2004
Tue, 04-06-2004 - 8:59am
I agree...keep posting every time you need to. We've all gone through periods of NC (well, most of us have) and can all sympathize with you. Here's a big ((((HUG)))) for you.
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Tue, 04-06-2004 - 9:16am
Hi Kikki, you'll make it thru the NC, we've all BTDT. Longest time I went was about 8 weeks and it was hell. But I tried to tell myself things will get better. And they did get back into our normal routine again after that. Just think about how good of a time you WILL have once you get together after that long absence. I think absence does make the heart grow fonder. I'm sure you will find that too. Just keep yourself busy, hobbies, working out, walks, or whatever you need to feel good about yourself in the meantime.

Dusty
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Registered: 04-02-2004
Tue, 04-06-2004 - 9:19am
Talking of which ... I had some contact with MM yesterday after 4 weeks NC. It was putely platonic, but nice. Felt a little more like normal. Then at the end of the day, I got a little flirty on email - and the line just went dead. No response, no nothing. Today I mailed - nothing. I can't bear this, it's so hard. It's like ever changing goal posts. I just don't know where I stand. It feels like walking on egg shells. Why did this happen? It feels this NC just came out of nowhere. It makes me so sad. I feel like I have a lump in my throat constantly
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Registered: 03-22-2004
Tue, 04-06-2004 - 10:52am
I would go so crazy if I had absolutely NC for a month, I think. We must talk atleast 15 times a day. I am starting to go crazy already thinking about the weekend of NC we'll have in about 2 weeks...he is going out of town for work and this area he is going to his cell phone never gets service, I think I'll buy him a phonecard so he can atleast call me from his room otherwise I'll go absolutely nuts not hearing from him at all. Good luck to you! Keep busy and this month will go by faster than you imagine I'm sure.

Love