I've had enough

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Registered: 01-12-2009
I've had enough
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Wed, 10-14-2009 - 7:53pm

Hello All ~


This morning

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Registered: 08-04-2009
Wed, 10-14-2009 - 8:28pm
I'm curious to know more about this situation, because depending on your role in the affair it can be more painful. What I mean is, are you married/single/other woman? I am in a lot of pain as a MW, with an AP who plays the field (everyone judges me for having feelings about that). I wonder if it hurts more as a SW with a MM?
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Registered: 08-28-2004
Wed, 10-14-2009 - 10:27pm

Hi Summer,


I'm so sorry you are hurting, but I'm proud of you. You did what you had to do. You realized your worth and knew you were not being treated the way you deserve.


Be strong. write whenever you need to.

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Registered: 08-28-2004
Wed, 10-14-2009 - 10:49pm

Chilli,


I just wanted to respond to your post. When my A first started my H and I were together and now we are seperated. I thought it was more difficult being a MW with a MM because i had to come home and pretend I was ok. I still love my H but I would be at home with him and think of AP the whole time. Now that H and I are seperated it seems to be even more difficult. Because now I come home alone and AP goes home to his W. And since I have more freedom, I want AP to be able to spend more time with me. but I fail to realize sometimes that even though my situation has changed his has not. And you have more free time to think about what he's doing.


It has gotten easier because my H doesnt live with me and I dont have to answer to him. AP still has to sneak around and do whatever it is he does to spend time with me. So for me it's less stressful in that way but the situation still sucks. I really

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Registered: 01-12-2009
Thu, 10-15-2009 - 1:00pm

Hi Caribu ~


I am a SW/OW. My MM and I had been seeing for over a year. I would see him every weekday morning, at least 3 nights during the week and either Friday or Saturday night. He was the first one to call me his GF but I was the first one to say that I loved him.

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Registered: 08-04-2009
Thu, 10-15-2009 - 1:45pm

Caribu


You do deserve better than this attached man. This is so hard for me, because I see it from 2 points of view. One, is that I have been

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Registered: 05-17-2003
Fri, 10-16-2009 - 1:37am

Way to go summerthyme08!

How I wish I had the guts, balls...hell, self-respect, to do the same thing.

I love this man but I can't take much more...he has sucked the soul right out of me

benska

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Registered: 01-12-2009
Mon, 10-19-2009 - 5:10pm

Hi Benska~


I wish I could say that this has been easy. I wish I could say that I'm over him, I'm not looking back that I'm not wishing he was still in my life. When truth be told, I miss him so much. . . I had a very busy weekend. I did do