I've had enough too

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Registered: 06-18-2003
I've had enough too
2
Sun, 03-28-2004 - 1:52am
I too have had enough.I'm ending it tonight.We were just having sex.He was all into it then all of the sudden he told me get up.I saw him start to let down his guard.I think he really has an issue with me being white.Who knows maybe he'll talk to me tomorrow.It was great while it lasted.And I got a chance to experience sex with an able bodied man.I do have feelings for him but that will end eventually.

I'll be checking in too.

Thanks for everybody's support.

Renee

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Registered: 01-02-2004
Sun, 03-28-2004 - 8:23am
Wow! Renee, has he ever acted this way before? I am so sorry that he did that to you. How long has the A been going on? I would think that if you were involved for a while any issues about race would have surfaced by now. Good luck with whatever decision you choose, and keep us posted! :)

((hugs))

Circe

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Registered: 06-29-2003
Sun, 03-28-2004 - 11:05pm
Boy Renee, that's terrible. I agree with Circe, you'd think if he had a problem with race before, that he would have addressed that issue right up front. What is it with men? I swear I don't understand their thinking at all. Is it a need to be in control at all times? Sometimes I get that feeling with my MM, like he's in the drivers seat of the R, and therefore it gives him a license to be a cruel, and coldhearted prick. That must have been very upsetting for you. I'm sorry you are hurting too. Take care, Virgogirl