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IVYLADYHAWK - Advise on the baby deal
| Tue, 10-28-2003 - 11:46am |
Last month I found out my OM's fiance was with child...so far Im handling it ok with the exception of the original shock of it all...can you give me any insight as to how I can expect this to all play out since you're MM's W must have had the baby or be close by now...
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| Tue, 10-28-2003 - 12:31pm |
MM's W had the baby at the end of September. I can honestly say that this was the hardest thing in our R so far. I would guess that it depended on how strongly you feel for one another. MM and I will be together for five years this coming February. I know that I love him, and there is no doubt in my heart how he feels about me. Finding out in February this year was really hard considering that I have also been trying to conceive since January of this year. Call me stupid, but I've been trying to get pregnant with MM's baby. I expected it to be a lot harder than what it was, but it didn't. It hit me hard in the beginning when I find out, and more towards the end. During the two weeks he was home with W and his family, I was so afraid that when he cae back he would end things with me. When I finally saw him, he wanted to know if I still loved him. He told me that he was afraid that I would leave him. It's been a month since MM's W had the baby, and I think this has made us stronger. I think what also helped was the fact that he didn't want to have another baby with her, and was pretty much blindsided. I know that it takes two, but when one comes home from work on her break, wakes him up, does the deed, and then returns to work, it has a feeling as if she planned it. I hope that things work out for you. Try to stay strong, and you can always e-mail me at anglbby989@yahoo.com. Good Luck.
| Thu, 10-30-2003 - 1:34pm |
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