There was no reason for me to ask the question, other than I have discovered that I do get a little jealous of MM's wife at times, not very often but once in awhile it does happen. I realize that there is no valid reason to feel that way, I know that shes his W, and his family is his primary concern. I think part of it may be due to the fact that in 17 years of marriage my H has never done some of the things for me that MM does for his wife.And another part of it may be the rollercoaster ride that A's bring with them. I am just trying to figure out the reason so I can put a stop to these feelings because I really do not like it! Thanks for replying to my postit helps to have a sounding board to keep things straight.
Actually you did help. Envious may be a better word for what I feel at times. I am secure in my R with my MM, I know what his feelings are about us. I also understand about the frustration that you feel when you can't quite get it together to see each other. The last couple of weeks kids have missed a day of school due to snow, my D has been sick with a cold this week and missed a couple days of school, and other little glitches that require our attention, its hard not to feel frustrated. I don't know if I have posted it but my hubby works out of state is only here for a short time every other month and he will be coming home at the end of the month so I am facing a short period of NC with my MM, so i value what time we get together now knowing that it will stop shortly. I think I am overthinking this... hehehehe
hi seeburg -- sorry sweetie, i'm not the jealous type so i can't really say anything here, although i am posting, aren't i!
what's the root cause of this question missy??
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Edited 2/17/2004 11:27:54 AM ET by cl-gurlfriend50
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There was no reason for me to ask the question, other than I have discovered that I do get a little jealous of MM's wife at times, not very often but once in awhile it does happen. I realize that there is no valid reason to feel that way, I know that shes his W, and his family is his primary concern. I think part of it may be due to the fact that in 17 years of marriage my H has never done some of the things for me that MM does for his wife.And another part of it may be the rollercoaster ride that A's bring with them. I am just trying to figure out the reason so I can put a stop to these feelings because I really do not like it! Thanks for replying to my postit helps to have a sounding board to keep things straight.
Seeburg
Seeburg
Hey seeburg,
I don't really feel I have a lot to be jealous of with MM... I've never really been jealous of his wife... knowing that she is his wife afterall.
Sweet
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Actually you did help. Envious may be a better word for what I feel at times. I am secure in my R with my MM, I know what his feelings are about us. I also understand about the frustration that you feel when you can't quite get it together to see each other. The last couple of weeks kids have missed a day of school due to snow, my D has been sick with a cold this week and missed a couple days of school, and other little glitches that require our attention, its hard not to feel frustrated. I don't know if I have posted it but my hubby works out of state is only here for a short time every other month and he will be coming home at the end of the month so I am facing a short period of NC with my MM, so i value what time we get together now knowing that it will stop shortly. I think I am overthinking this... hehehehe
Thanks for your post
Seeburg
Seeburg