jealousy of mm fb acct, childish i know.

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Registered: 08-08-2009
jealousy of mm fb acct, childish i know.
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Tue, 01-26-2010 - 11:38am
My mm started a fb acct. I'm so jealous I'm hurtful. Has anyone else had these types of emotions. I have started to ignore him because of my being jealous. No good morning emails or phone calls. The last time I was at his house, I was very cold to him. I can not get past these feelings.

MoonUnit

MoonUnit

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Registered: 09-28-2006
Tue, 01-26-2010 - 2:54pm

Moon,


Are you jealous (that is, you don't like the time he spends on FB because that time/attention is being spent on something other than you) OR, are you suspicious?

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Registered: 08-08-2009
Tue, 01-26-2010 - 8:45pm

first off i'm not suspicious. i don't tell him what he can and can not do. it's not committed. if chooses to meet other women, well that's his business.


the jealousy stems from the time he spends on there.

MoonUnit

MoonUnit

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Registered: 12-24-2009
Wed, 01-27-2010 - 7:21am

WOW...flyagain was just asking what is your jealousy issue was about...Most of the time it IS about suspicion.


I dont understand the jealousy about him just

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Registered: 01-26-2010
Wed, 01-27-2010 - 9:29am

FB was one thing that made me think that my AP wasn't being totally honest with me.

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Registered: 08-08-2009
Wed, 01-27-2010 - 10:47am

my AP never hid his facebook acct from me. he goes on it right in front of me. he knows about my acct also. i know he has never looked at it to see what i have on there. i checked his out once. i have no desire to check it out more then that.


my jealousy stems from being on the outside looking in, and i wish i could be a part of that part of his life. the amount of time he spends on it, and i'm looking in, i became very jealous.


MoonUnit

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Registered: 01-26-2010
Wed, 01-27-2010 - 11:08am
I feel the same if that helps, I was also peering in from out here, he's got all his friends on there who are also his neighbours... They are out socialising all the time and because i was a sordid secret he couldn't involve me in case his mates caught on and told his partner.