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| Mon, 06-28-2010 - 1:03am |
No, it wasn't enough that he was in a funk for most of last week, or that he was home this weekend, and not only made no effort to see me, but zero contact.
| Mon, 06-28-2010 - 1:03am |
No, it wasn't enough that he was in a funk for most of last week, or that he was home this weekend, and not only made no effort to see me, but zero contact.
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Still new here (have lurked on and off) and trying to get caught up on everyone's story.
Cute tinkerbell pic LOL!
That doesn't seem like him at all. Wonder if something's going on. Maybe his W is suspicious of something and hovering around him? Dunno, my guess is he will talk to you about what's up soon.
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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Hi Another
Ugh, the non-responding AP. So frustrating! I totally can relate and feel for ya. I'm wonder whether you should back off sending so many texts and emails. I mean, he's received them, right? And he's not responding (for whatever reason), and unfortunately, there's nothing really you can do. He'll respond whenever he decides to (which yes, is incredibly frustrating and unfair) and a stream of texts from you won't change that likely. Plus, the more you try to contact him and it isn't reciprocated, the more unhappy and powerless you yourself will feel! So just sit back and let him come back to you. No more texts/emails. Get out, get busy, and distract yourself, he WILL get in touch with you, whenever he is in a better mood and less unhappy or stressed.
I've noticed this pattern of over-texting and over-emailing (IMHO) in many stories on this board. My own included although I've really tried to stop that, even though it is sooooo tempting!
Anyway, just some food for though. Remember, don't hand over your power to an AP! Nothing but unhappiness lies ahead when you do that.
Good luck!!!
I think we are going to have to have a second round of name calling for your AP, AE!
Thanks everyone:).
He did finally respond to my last text last night, and we wound up having a slight argument.
anotherseyes
THe past two weeks of ignoring my AP has made him very attentive this past weekend... it is amazing what the chase will do for a man...
Since he's acting so funky the last week don't text or email him anymore. You are putting all this energy into him and not getting the feedback and response your looking for. When that happens your just aggravating yourself even more and you don't need that.
Give him his space and just let it be. He'll contact you and when he does find out where things between you two stand.
LOL cute pic of tinkerbell =)
Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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Pulling back REALLY works!!
Last week AP was being a jerk.
Everything is good again.
anotherseyes
See if I tell AP that I feel neglected or I need more contact- he would say 'I cannot be what you want' or something along those lines.
He has
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