Just Checking In

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Registered: 05-09-2012
Just Checking In
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Mon, 09-17-2012 - 9:37pm

So after the debacle on my birthday I've stayed away.  I haven't called or texted AP.  I've changed my routine so that I'm not on my porch or outside like I usually am.  He wanted to slow down I gave it to him.  In fact I found that I needed to slow down too.  Maybe I was just to close to see what was going on and looking back on it now he was right we were going completely crazy and putting it all at risk.  I was breaking laws to be with him, etc.  He explained to me his slow down was not planning on meeting up anymore but letting it happen naturally when the chance arises.  Well nothing has changed!!  We met up last week and again today.  Yes the opportunity was there, so we took it.  I still have learned something about myself though, I'm okay.  Things have a way of working themselves out.  I actually like the fact that I'm not around for him to see every waking hour of the day.  I think someone on my last post said to step away and see if he comes running, and he has.  But I'm slowly finding myself again and knowing I'll be okay no matter what.

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Registered: 05-15-2012
Tue, 09-18-2012 - 9:28am
Well done. :smileyhappy:

We've all heard the analogy that too much of anything can be unhealthy.