Just curious if he still has interest

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Registered: 04-12-2012
Just curious if he still has interest
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Thu, 04-12-2012 - 6:26pm

I'm not planning on pursuing this, my husband knows all about it, but the attention is flattering, but the attention has changed, and I'm wondering why.

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Fri, 04-13-2012 - 10:50am

best to ask him... i think your H is probably right though.

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Fri, 04-13-2012 - 11:37am
I'd ask him....

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Fri, 04-13-2012 - 12:49pm

There's a part of me that believes yes, he has a huge crush and is intimidated and also by the simple fact he doesn't want it to go anywhere, and I totally understand that, but then I always doubt myself and wonder if I'm reading into things, but here are the facts:

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Fri, 04-13-2012 - 3:12pm

wife found out that he was interacting this way with you from a co-worker.. read him the riot act.. told him that he needs to get back to reality and act like a real husband, not a little boy who found a stash of secret candy.. he told wife "yes, honey".. so, what you see him doing now is "yes, honey"..

it's not a "guy" thing, it's a "i got caught approaching the cookie jar" thing..

what's going on in your life that thinking about all his becomes a fun escape for you? :)

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Fri, 04-13-2012 - 5:25pm
I have a huge crush on him now and it's dull he backed off.... My husband cheers me up, oddly enough, by saying he's intimidated and his actions show he still is infatuated. The wife and I became friends, maybe that's why he's playing it safe? He can keep tabs on me with the wife? I just wish he still likes me , could he? Answering a simple email isn't cheating on her, but he doesn't do that anymore. The wife and I are friends so she mustn't have suspected.... But it was harmless. Life is so much fun and it was thrilling to hear his compliments and get his emails. Maybe he cheated before, she smelled a rat with me, and nixed it?????
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Fri, 04-13-2012 - 11:36pm

I wonder if it might be another cause.

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Sat, 04-14-2012 - 8:34am
I think his wife noticed something, ever hear the saying "keep your friends close, but your enemies closer". Seems to me, she is holding the reins of his leash. Keeping an eye on his connections with you. Thus the forwarding of work emails, perhaps she has befriended another coworker and is getting reports.
Your man has a crush on you and those don't die easy, but HE IS being the good boy.
~Sunny~
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Sat, 04-14-2012 - 3:50pm
Thanks!!!! I agree. I get on such a high when I get the looks I want from him, and on a low when I don't. I can't have him, so I wonder what s the point. To know he's attracted to me is good enough for me. :)