A just ended

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Registered: 07-02-2009
A just ended
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Mon, 04-19-2010 - 8:00pm
My A of 3 years has just ended. I'm not really quite sure how/why as everything is just a blur and I feel like my heart is about to break.
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Registered: 03-29-2010
In reply to: touchofgray
Mon, 04-19-2010 - 8:37pm
I'm so sorry you're hurting touch... You don't need to go to EAS if you don't want to - or until you're ready. You can stay here and get support. I know there's nothing I can say that will help the pain right now because it's too fresh and raw, but just know that we care about you. ((hugs))

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Registered: 07-24-2009
In reply to: touchofgray
Mon, 04-19-2010 - 8:55pm

One more glass of wine, and be done with that.


Change the sheets on the bed then take yourself a nice, long hot shower or bath and cry it out.

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Registered: 06-09-2003
In reply to: touchofgray
Mon, 04-19-2010 - 9:04pm
I'm so sorry:(.
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Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: touchofgray
Mon, 04-19-2010 - 10:19pm

An affair ending is just like any other break-up.. well, except that in most cases you can't cry and sob all over people in your life. If the affair was a complete secret from everyone - you have to suffer in silence.

It's never easy to end a relationship - whether it was an affair or not. Take the time you need to grieve for this relationship. Know that it's ok to cry, be angry, or whatever emotions you feel.

We're all here to listen - you don't have to leave if you don't want to go. We'll support you through all you're going through. There are many of us who've been in more than one affair (so, we've been through the end part of it).

(((HUGS)))

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Registered: 07-12-2008
In reply to: touchofgray
Mon, 04-19-2010 - 10:26pm
Oh, touch, your note brought tears to my eyes.
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Registered: 07-02-2009
In reply to: touchofgray
Tue, 05-04-2010 - 1:13pm
I'm bumping my own post because it's now almost a month later and I still can't figure out if my A is over.
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Registered: 04-06-2010
In reply to: touchofgray
Tue, 05-04-2010 - 2:09pm

After three years, that have to hurt. Remember "this shall also passed".


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Registered: 04-11-2010
In reply to: touchofgray
Wed, 05-05-2010 - 8:24am

Oh I feel for you I really do. My A has been a year but somedays he is so 'civil' and friend-like it feels outrigt cold. Why do they go hot and cold like that??? But I agree at some point we need to say- you know what- I dont need this- seeya bucko.


Im not at that point either- some days I wish I was. A few more friendly cold texts and I will be!

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