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A just ended
| Mon, 04-19-2010 - 8:00pm |
My A of 3 years has just ended. I'm not really quite sure how/why as everything is just a blur and I feel like my heart is about to break.
| Mon, 04-19-2010 - 8:00pm |
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One more glass of wine, and be done with that.
Change the sheets on the bed then take yourself a nice, long hot shower or bath and cry it out.
An affair ending is just like any other break-up.. well, except that in most cases you can't cry and sob all over people in your life. If the affair was a complete secret from everyone - you have to suffer in silence.
It's never easy to end a relationship - whether it was an affair or not. Take the time you need to grieve for this relationship. Know that it's ok to cry, be angry, or whatever emotions you feel.
We're all here to listen - you don't have to leave if you don't want to go. We'll support you through all you're going through. There are many of us who've been in more than one affair (so, we've been through the end part of it).
(((HUGS)))
After three years, that have to hurt. Remember "this shall also passed".
Oh I feel for you I really do. My A has been a year but somedays he is so 'civil' and friend-like it feels outrigt cold. Why do they go hot and cold like that??? But I agree at some point we need to say- you know what- I dont need this- seeya bucko.
Im not at that point either- some days I wish I was. A few more friendly cold texts and I will be!