Just Ended Things With AP

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Just Ended Things With AP
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Fri, 04-30-2010 - 6:14pm

Didn't last long, did it?


He's home for the weekend, and came a day early.

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Registered: 08-11-2009
Fri, 04-30-2010 - 9:20pm

I'm so sorry to hear how much you are hurting.

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Registered: 06-09-2003
Fri, 04-30-2010 - 9:29pm

Thank you, Alive.


I'm so sorry to hear about your own situation.

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Registered: 08-11-2009
Fri, 04-30-2010 - 9:55pm

Yes, the move is official.

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Sat, 05-01-2010 - 4:56pm
Awww Niffer, I'm sorry you're having this agony! It's not easy, that's for sure. Only you can decide whether life is better with or without him - and "with him" will certainly include a lot of highs, lows and many huge disappointments that neither one of you can prevent. It will also include the guilt you've mentioned and the whole double life thing which not all of us can deal with. I hope that whatever you decide is the right thing for you to do for yourself. I'd say "get off the roller coaster NOW" because your A is fairly new and it will only cause a lot more pain by the end. That's always my first advice. Really think about sticking to your first decision, and how much easier that will make your life - easier and healthier. :-)

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Sat, 05-01-2010 - 4:57pm
Aliveagain, just some (((hugs))) for the upcoming separation...

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You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull

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You've

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Registered: 06-09-2003
Sun, 05-02-2010 - 11:25am

Alive - I have to believe that things that are meant to be, WILL be.

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Thu, 05-20-2010 - 1:34am
Can I just say WOW for cutting out all the crap and straight up telling him how you feel?
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Thu, 05-20-2010 - 1:35pm

Sorry, Jane, I changed my user name ;).


As you can tell from other posts, we're still very much together.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Thu, 05-20-2010 - 1:41pm

I just reread all the posts in this thread, and realized you may have been talking about H instead of AP?

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