JUST AN FYI.....
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JUST AN FYI.....
| Sun, 01-25-2004 - 4:31pm |
I was told one time on this board to maybe try the ALL SIDES board. So, I did. Girls, don't go to that board. It's only another version of the BS board. They are warped and twisted. They also refer to this board a lot. One woman even referred to me as a troll. I don't think some of these boards are anything of what they portray themselves to be. A bunch of hypocrites and ex wives who still feel angry over being dumped. I don't want to go on and on because they are probably lurking over here too. Sad , that there isn't any safe place to discuss openingly without your words and feelings being twisted to fit someone elses warped sense of right. If you decide to go over, just agree with everything they say. they know everything and have esp. And if you are by the way lurking. In a year, i will still be with him most likely planning my wedding and if by chance I entertained your thought of coming back to your board and you were there, that in itself would be the saddest thing.

Sorry you felt so insulted at the other board. Now remember, I didn't insult you or anything, and I frankly looked forward with what you had to say. I am sorry that someone told you that you should just come over to this board. I usually invite people to be part of several boards, but the choice is up to you of course.
You definately will find the support you are looking for here. But keep in mind, you have made some pretty harsh generalizations too. Not everyone on that board was mean to you, but you made it sound that way. It was totally wrong for someone to call you a troll though. I think you made some good points and they were thoroughly challenged.
It is funny that the reason why you came back here is the same reason why I discovered the other board. From my prospective of being only someone who "considered an A" and as someone who has not been a BS, many of the things on this board come across as twisted for one's own agenda and as jealousy of MM's W, etc to me. Funny how our individual circumstances influence our interpretations of things, isn't it?
To be honest with you TNJ, you don't sound like a half bad person. I wish you the best and I do believe you and your BF have a chance to make it work. I just think everyone wanted you to realistically acknowledge what could happen, and yes, some people sounded bitter (but some folks sound plenty bitter over here too). And ironically enough, even though you feel more comfortable on this board, and it is your right to be here, keep in mind that the majority of the women here are having A's. You claim that you are not in an A but in a right and honest relationship....unless you are planning to cheat on your BF/fiance. Think about it.
Pen
P.S. You have every right to go to the other board too, and it is your perogative not to, but it is too bad you were chased away. I for one, like having the "diversity" there.
Good luck to you.
Pen