Just got back from "lunch"

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Registered: 10-14-2003
Just got back from "lunch"
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Thu, 11-20-2003 - 2:36pm
Just got back from "lunch" with MM. Needles to say, there was no food involved. It was wonderful! (Please allow me to gush for a while-as we all know this is the only place I can) We met in our usual spot which is a pasture. I was running a little behind him, and he called to see where I was. As soon as I got there, we was standing outside of his truch and pulled me into a kiss. It was so wonderful to be standing outside, the sun on us and kiss in the fresh open air (We are in Fl, it is about 72 degrees outside) It was the first time we have kissed, not being inside the office or one of our vehicles. I had SUCH a feeling of contentment standing out there in the sun, kissing. (Gush, Gush *happy sigh*) Then we had great sex w/ extras. All of the times before it has been a raw, lusty passion- which has been great- but today it was ...deeper, it was less agressive and urgent. There was TONS of kissing, and...I am not sure how to describe it... I guess a softness, and a deep FEELING that was there. Since we got back to work He keeps looking at me when he walks by my desk. Usually we kind of try to keep it REALLY cool after we meet for lunch because we work in a really small office, and don't want anyone to catch on. He is leaving for a week next week and, I won't see him for 11 DAYS!!!! (sad)

Anyway, I guess that is it, thanks for listening everyone. By the way, Liberal, if you read this that whole "I'm just in it for the sex thing". You were right, it does not work.

Kitty (sex kitty) I see there is another kitty on the board too.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 11-20-2003 - 2:41pm
hey kitty --- sounds like you had a great "lunch"!! and congrats as you've now ascends to the next level -- the "softness" level. hahaha, but really, you almost can't help it but move past the FWB level after awhile.

anyway, enjoy every minute you can get with your MM!

take care,

gurl

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Registered: 10-23-2003
Thu, 11-20-2003 - 2:45pm
Glad you figured that out... much quicker than I did...I still try to tell myself at times it's just about the sex, it's only lust, not love...yadda yadda...LOL or my favorite line "a girls gotta have a hobby right?" LOL OM cracks up when I say that, referring to him as just my hobby...lol

cl-liberalgirl

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MEOWWWW to all the kitties!!!!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 11-20-2003 - 2:51pm
ohhh, i like that liberal "a girl's gotta have a hobby!" i'm using it, k??

gurl

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Registered: 10-14-2003
Thu, 11-20-2003 - 2:52pm
Thank you ladies. Now, if I could just wipe this silly grin off of my face. This is going to sound REALLY lame, but I really do feel like that little heart emoticon. I feel like a cartoon character with little hearts floating around her head. Did it hit you guys this hard when the relationship shifted from sex only?

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Registered: 10-14-2003
Thu, 11-20-2003 - 2:53pm
That IS a good one! Now that you mention it I have been shopping (my usual hobby) a lot less since I started my "A"

HA! HA


Kitty

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Registered: 04-07-2003
Thu, 11-20-2003 - 2:56pm
Ok I am VERY jealous! I also work with MM and we do go to lunch at least once a week but no matter how hard I try I can't get him to do a "diet" lunch. I thought I could get him to go today as I have on a great short sexy suit and he did caress my butt this morning as I was leaning over a file cabinet looking for a file but he had a lunch meeting oh well... It sounds like you had a wonderful "lunch" I'm sure you both will be smiling all day!
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Registered: 11-15-2003
Thu, 11-20-2003 - 2:58pm
I have always felt that kind of euphoria that Kitty is talking about, since the beginning with MM. Actually, LOL was pretty funny. I think it was the second or third time we had met up somewhere for sex that I said to him, "You know, every time is like the first time with you!" as he was saying the exact same thing to me! We discussed one time that our relationship is not about sex at all, its about making love and preserving it for the future. I just now got off the phone with MM who informed me hes on his way back to the office to take me into his arms and kiss me passionately! I am so looking forward to that!

Gotta go!

Tam

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Registered: 09-18-2003
Thu, 11-20-2003 - 2:58pm
SexKitty, Sounds like an awesome lunch date !!! Glad it went well and those 11 days will be hard, I just went through that.....but it was good to hear his voice when he returned ! Keep yourself occupied it will go quicker.

Wishing

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Registered: 10-14-2003
Thu, 11-20-2003 - 3:04pm
Yeah it is over Thanksgiving week, so I will be busy with all that. Hopefully it will fly by!

Kitty

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Thu, 11-20-2003 - 4:26pm
So Liberal, and Gurlfriend too, you think things move beyond the FWB usually even if you say its not going to? I am fond of MM who I've been seeing for just over 2 years and I know he is fond of me too. And he did say quite a while ago that he wouldn't have kept seeing me for so long if he weren't. And we did start out for the sex really, we had a definitely chemistry right from the start and it is awesome!!

I had my own 'special lunch' on Tuesday this week!! And this man is incredible, he can make it happen for me several times in an afternoon. That's what I wonder, is if a guy is supposedly in an A for a purely selfish reason (to satisfy himself) then why would he be so intent on satisfying the woman and even if it's at the expense of his own satisfaction? Because this is what happened to us this week. I told him I will definitely make it up to him next time.

If the man was in it for himself (so to speak), and didn't have any real feelings for the woman, then he wouldn't care so much about making the woman satisfied (over and over again), would he? Just a question I wonder about alot ...

xxxx

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