Just an observation

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Registered: 11-06-2008
Just an observation
Wed, 12-03-2008 - 9:00pm

This is mind boggling to me. AP was showing interest in another woman. I became insanely jealous, which I am not at all proud of. I was hurt, felt betrayed and felt like my life was crumbling around me.

I explained to AP that I have started to also be interested in another man. He admitted alot of jealousy that quickly went away. BUT, he has been super loving, attentive, making time for me like he has NEVER made time for me. I mean, we always got together as much as possible for a LDA, but now it's more!

I think he realized that he was at risk of losing me and he perked up a bit. I was close to ending it but he has shown me what I needed. I love him more than I have ever loved anyone....and I have loved him to 16 years. I nearly reached the breaking point.

So, my observation for those of you(and I was/am/was)who are clinging tightly to jerk-off behavior. Just remember. He's not the only one out there and he needs to be made to work for your love.

Much love to all who are struggling the same as I have been.