just a question for all

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just a question for all
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Mon, 07-28-2003 - 8:42pm
How do we get where we are that we need a forum, how do we get where we are that life takes a dramtic turn, how do we get where we are and still have hopes, dreams, a wish!! How do we get where we are and still hold our heads up high, how do we have to deal with society always looking down on us, yet we survive, how do we smile when we see a an emaail of whispered words, how do we see light, hope in the silence of three little words spoken across the air waves, how do we see our dreams in stolen minutes of time, how do we see and feel the passion of one's touch, how do we share those things and times with so few, yet we so cherish?????????

I think that love where we may find it and all the problems aand all the trials it brings, it is the LOVE that we find in someone so dear that makes us hang on, be foolish as I may hanging on for over 2 and a half years no end in sight and excuses I could number..

It is love that keeps us whole, it is love that makes this right and it is a love thaat has no boundries, has no space nor time

It is just a pure love, that keeps us here

okay now let me out LOL

Ladyinwaiting40

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 07-29-2003 - 6:27am
I could rationalize to no end why I am in this EMA. But the emotion of love is what drives me to stay. Pure love. And nothing like it. Joy. On the down side, I miss him like crazy, and the distance only gives the relationship a slow burn. I say there are no answers; only choices.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 07-29-2003 - 5:10pm
Of course. I said that in my first response.
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Registered: 04-02-2003
Tue, 07-29-2003 - 6:55pm
I agree with everyone that we have a choice, a choice to wake up each day and be angry, a choice in our fields of profession, we have a choice each and every day to turn left or right, to answer the phone, to have beef instead of fish, to finally clean out that darn old closet, we have a choice in what we keep and what we give away, but our hearts do not have that choice for when you love, boundries, greay areas and all that you are just love, one emtion that we can not control,, we can try and turn it off, walk away, say there is no hope and live with the pain,but the hurt, the always wondering , the love, even after all the apin, will always remain, part of human nature, part of who we are, call it chemisrty, call it what ever you want an A, sometimes is out of pure animal lust, but what I have found and read here, all our stories are the same,,we have found someone that is Our Best Friend, Our Lover, our everything, that without a doubt is what true love is, no matter what we gripe about his or her W/H, we are always there right beside them,, so a choice yes we have, but to love, we never have a choice for the HEART has no brain, it only feels!! and to follow your heart good bad and ugly is to say at least I have known true love!!

and yet am still waiting,,but my heart knows its place!

Ladyingwaiting

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