just sex

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Registered: 10-01-2003
just sex
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Wed, 10-01-2003 - 2:33am
Okay, it's not quite an affair, but I have to share my exciting (yet disappointing) experience with someone. There is this guy, him and I flirt back & forth often. However, he has a girlfriend (not engaged and have no plans to be). Anyway, this weekend a lot was said between the two of us (very sexual). He asked me what I'd do if he dragged me outside. I said I'd readily go, but didn't know what his girlfriend would think of that. He said does it look like she cares (she was dancing on tables). So, I followed him outside. He asked me what I expected, he said I wouldn't be able to tell anyone about it. We talked about the small amount of time we had. We kissed and it was hot. We ended up going into my car. My god, we were both completely only into this for the sex. I've never done anything like that before. We were both talking very dirty. We both ended up naked, made it to third base and half way to home. He was sooooo nervous about being caught, that we weren't able to have sex, if you know what I mean. He apologized and said so what do you think, is a raincheck acceptable in this situation. I said absolutely, but he better be damn sure that I'll cash in on that raincheck. He said I better. However, at a more convienent time & place.
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Registered: 10-01-2003
In reply to: guppy75
Wed, 10-01-2003 - 4:49pm
BUMP...

Just wondering if anyone can relate!?!?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: guppy75
Thu, 10-02-2003 - 12:18pm
guppy -- i think the reason you aren't getting any responses to your post is that you and the other guy are not married and can date each other. he's not married, engaged or any plans to be and neither are you, it seems. this board is for affairs/extra-marital affairs, not dating antics.

if you want to be with him in the future, make him date you. dinner, movies, that sort of thing. if you don't want a future with him and if you start sleeping with him right off the bat, you'll end up being the booty call after the bars close and nothing else.

it sounds exciting but not much potential for you -- lots for him though.

just my opinion hon.

take care,

gurl

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: guppy75
Thu, 10-02-2003 - 3:14pm
All I have to say is, Pray for rain and go have fun! NMR