Just a teaser?

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Registered: 02-22-2004
Just a teaser?
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Tue, 03-16-2004 - 9:25pm
Anyone who has read my "I am a fool" posts knows most of the story... my MM and I are still emailing alot; he showed up at where I was tonight (because I told him I would be there). He knew a ton of people so we had to really keep it light. I did walk over to his car and we chatted for a bit. Here's my question: In public where there are people, he seems to take chances (like to tell me he wants to squeeze/grab me). However, the few oppty's we have where a grab or squeeze could be gotten away with- he does not attempt anything. Is he all tease? talk?

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Registered: 09-16-2003
In reply to: vles64
Thu, 03-18-2004 - 10:34am
vles64, there is nothing you can *make* anybody do, unless they want to do it personally. I learnt that lesson very quickly from my relationships very early on. He has to do himself, no amount of pointers is going to get you anywhere if he doesn't want to do it honey. Its funny a lot of people that accused me of stalking/being needy are often the ones cannot be without their cup of joe, "so as to speak" purposes only. Nothing else can perk them up!


Edited 3/18/2004 11:36 am ET ET by julietsfate
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Registered: 07-24-2003
In reply to: vles64
Thu, 03-18-2004 - 10:50am
Yep, I agree. I think you should back off and let him digest the situation and decide whether it's what he wants, and then come to you at his own will. No offense, but you are moving at a speed of a tornado, hon, and not giving him any time and space to breathe and think.
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Registered: 01-21-2004
In reply to: vles64
Thu, 03-18-2004 - 11:22am
Sorry Omaha...I knew after I wrote that, I thought about you ;)

Anyway, vles, just calm down honey, he'll come around, it's just a slow process. Be strong, just be flirty and playful, that's obviously what drew him to you anyway...that's what will keep him there!

Take care!

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Registered: 02-22-2004
In reply to: vles64
Thu, 03-18-2004 - 1:24pm
BK - No emails from MM today. I am bummed but not in dire straights. I will see him tonight and act like nothing has changed. For all I know, nothing has. He can make the initial contact. Boston's message scared me enough to not email him. I guess we have been moving at the speed of light and I need to slooooowww down. He was flirty last nite...

But an email would be nice....

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Registered: 01-21-2004
In reply to: vles64
Thu, 03-18-2004 - 1:39pm
I know it's so hard to wait for them sometimes!! He's probably just really busy. Sometimes my OM gets really busy at work too, and then I begin to worry, but the next day or something it's all back to normal. If he was flirty last night, then all is probably well.

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