just venting about ....

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Registered: 11-21-2003
just venting about ....
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Wed, 12-03-2003 - 3:30pm
I am just venting about posts from people like fleebee80 who come on here and start calling us sinners etc. They have no idea why we are in the situation we are in, what our M is like, why we started the A, what we are looking for out of this, because I think its a little different for each of us, only we can make those decisions for ourselves.

I know that an A was not something I was looking for it just happened, I have also been on the other end of a cheating H., but I will say that I have no regrets at this point and if I had to make the decision all over again, nothing would be different. But that does not make me a bad person or a bad mother. I have found what was missing so if anything it makes me a better person

 Seeburg    

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Wed, 12-03-2003 - 4:12pm
hi seeburg i know l'm very good loving person .l try to be with single guy he abuse me and hit me.so l rather be with my ex-mm if we could be back together . he was so good loving to me been 17 years l haven't seen him.l do know allt his time we have been part my ex-mm has never forgotton me.he camwe back to me feb 19 1999 until july 25 2001 my ex-mm said to me he said what we share together was very special ad he thinks about me often.so l know im good lady and god loves me. he was here for me when l had cancer.hugs kimmy
kimmy
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Registered: 08-23-2003
Wed, 12-03-2003 - 4:17pm
Why do you let her get to you. Noone knows what a persons life is like. Noone knows how it really is behind close doors. We are all good people inside.

People like fleebag stand on their pedalstals and throw words out about sins, or sinners left and right, but only to give themselves a superior feeling of being.

It means nothing. In our hearts we know how we are.
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Registered: 11-17-2003
Wed, 12-03-2003 - 4:20pm
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Edited 3/10/2004 4:54 pm ET ET by geek_chic
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 12-03-2003 - 4:25pm
EXACTLY! gc, again with the right-on-point post.

what goes around, comes around!! and God has better and way bigger issues to deal with than striking us down for cheating. we are all adults and no one can preach about us being "bad" because let he (or she!) who is without sin, cast the first stone.... and i don't believe there is anyone without sin!!

gurl

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Registered: 06-24-2003
Wed, 12-03-2003 - 5:22pm

seeburg,


I missed the posts... removed before I awoke... but I can sort of guess what they had to say... best advice I can give... ignore them!


I learnt a long time ago not to worry about what people think of me... and that wasn't just in regards to my EMA... but in all the aspects of my life.

Sweet
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Registered: 11-21-2003
Wed, 12-03-2003 - 7:51pm
I really don't care what people think of me. I have always played by the rules that I was taught, and now I am not, so I still have alot to learn about being in an A, whats acceptable and whats not etc. Just glad I am a quick learner LOL

 Seeburg