just want some virtual hugs

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Registered: 07-13-2014
just want some virtual hugs
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Mon, 08-04-2014 - 10:57am

Feeling all out of whack and trying to sort out my feelings. I went to see my AP last weekend and we had an amazing time. His W was out of town and he invited a few friends that know about us to celebrate my birthday. I know .. a little dicey.. but he was comfortable with it.  We had fun and he was so happy.  Now I'm back and reality has set in.. His W is back.. he goes "dark" on weekends.. very little if any communication.. and I have to just stand by.. it is what I signed up for.. I get it.. I don't see my ass walking out the door.. so I guess I am just feeling a little blue today.. I just want some hugs... preferrably giant ones..  Thanks for listening.. Suzy♥

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Registered: 08-04-2014
Mon, 08-04-2014 - 3:57pm

You can have a hug.I know it is hard.I was in a similar situation myself.I hated weekends because I couldn't see my lover.Now he has recently moved to Switzerland and I am on the east coast!I guess that is my punishment for having an affair.I definitely have a lot of blue days. but when you are in love it is so hard to give that person up.Hang in there.

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Registered: 07-13-2014
Tue, 08-05-2014 - 11:02am

Thanks.. I'm feeling better today. I feel stronger.. 

SmileSuzy

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Registered: 06-14-2014
Tue, 08-05-2014 - 3:43pm

Love you girlie!!

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Registered: 01-09-2014
Tue, 08-05-2014 - 4:01pm
Sendy you Hugs Suzy. It's a tough situation to be in but I understand XoXoX.