just wanted to say..

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-06-2003
just wanted to say..
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Thu, 10-16-2003 - 1:28pm
i really enjoy this board. i have gone to other affair message boards and people can be so harsh and not understanding. we all have our own reasons for choosing to be involved with someone outside our marriage.

i like to read others responses...ya'll are so understanding. while i may not always know what advice to give i enjoy reading about your situations.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-20-2003
Fri, 10-17-2003 - 5:43pm
I agree. This board is wonderful and I feel very lucky to have found it. I don't post all that often, but coming here to read through the thoughts of other people going through many of the emotions that I'm also experiencing has really saved my sanity.

Annika

Brightest Blessings, Annika


iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Fri, 10-17-2003 - 7:16pm
hi girls with you all on this all girls so great to me on here.l went all affairs board lady telling me that ex-mm and l never had affair all fairy story. l'm not post their anymore not nice over their.l had my first affair when l was 22 he was 37 .lm 40 now he 55 he told me always care about me which makes feel happy even to this day l know he thinks about me. hugs to you all kimmy
kimmy
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2003
Sat, 10-18-2003 - 7:16am

Hi Ladies,


I'm so glad that the board had been of some help to you... I too was so happy to find this place somewhat almost two years ago... and don't know how I managed without.

Sweet
Co-Community Leader My

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-17-2003
Sat, 10-18-2003 - 11:10am
I have searched the internet high and low for so long to find SOMEONE that could relate to my situation and all I ever got was the negative "it's never going to work" and "what are you doing?? You knew he was married" and I know all of this but, you know, I don't need to hear it. Then I found this board and I didn't just find ONE person who was in my shoes, but ALOT of women who are in my shoes and it's like Annika said, I think would've lost my sanity by now if not for this. Now I don't feel so different from everyone else.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-12-2003
Sat, 10-18-2003 - 4:35pm
I have to agree with fpenick, I too have been on other boards and have experienced the same condemnation of "you put yourself in the situation" even if it is supposed to be a support board for those having affairs. As the saying goes.."true love can't be found where it does not exist nor can it hide where it does exist". For the majority of us, I don't think an A is the ideal situation nor did we "put" ourselves in this situation. But for those of you who know Boston's story, sometimes you have to take a chance otherwise you will never know what could have been. Sometimes 15 minutes of wonderful is better than a lifetime of nothing.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-18-2003
Sat, 10-18-2003 - 4:42pm
this is the first message board I ever went on. I'm glad to hear it is helping you.