Just wanting to introduce myself

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2009
Just wanting to introduce myself
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Fri, 10-09-2009 - 9:18pm
Hello All, Ive been lurking this board and wanted to introduce myself.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2009
Sat, 10-10-2009 - 12:23pm

Hi. married man here in an

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2008
Sat, 10-10-2009 - 1:41pm

Hi Deandra!

Welcome to the board! Nice to see you post and introduce yourself.

First, I'd like to caution you (if that is you) to not have your picture as default. It is unsafe to do so on a public board, esp. this board where your H or OM may stumble upon your posts. Ya never know...

It sounds to me that if your OM is not making an effort to see you and you are having these doubts, then you are probably right. :/ Unfortunately, we are usually on target when it comes to our gut instinct, so trust it... Don't throw away a marriage to be with some guy that you're not sure is giving you 100%. If you do decide to leave, leave because you want to, for yourself.. not for another man.

Please take time to read this board and I'm sure other ladies who've been in your shoes can offer you better advice! This place is the place to be...wonderful people, great advice!

I wish you luck!

 

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Registered: 10-10-2009
Sat, 10-10-2009 - 3:23pm
I agree with the other 2 posters. If you have a gut feeling then there usually is a reason for it. However things are always easier said then done in an affair. Seems like sometimes you have to replace bad habits with new habits. Soo with that said if you don't want to continue the relationship with him, try to distract yourself.