Keep changing my mind

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Registered: 10-22-2003
Keep changing my mind
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Mon, 03-19-2012 - 5:50pm

Wow last week I thought I was going to stop things with the MM and leave things where they stood.

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Registered: 10-26-2010
Mon, 03-19-2012 - 11:59pm
Times that by 100 and that is what the UPS and DOWNS of an affair feel like. You are already connected emotionally. Enjoy if for what it is, an addition to your life, be careful and don't let it become your life. Good luck!
~Sunny~
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Registered: 10-22-2003
Tue, 03-20-2012 - 8:04am

Thank you Sunny for those words I am really confused on how I got here I am going to try to talk to him today and figure some stuff out It is so intense when we are in the same room.

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Registered: 04-21-2008
Tue, 03-20-2012 - 11:37am

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Registered: 10-08-2010
Tue, 03-20-2012 - 5:38pm
Please go away heissick...no one wants to hear your negative..
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-22-2003
Tue, 03-20-2012 - 6:24pm

I agree it is a support forum for those of us who are struggling with this issue which has to do a lot with emotions, so yes he could go away I don't mind.

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Registered: 10-03-2007
Thu, 03-22-2012 - 5:15am
The reply was not meant for you .

Also, its not a negative. Its a simple solution to OP's dilemma. If you wanted me to say ,' oh honey, go ahead, live your life ' , thats not a positive either .
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Registered: 10-03-2007
Thu, 03-22-2012 - 5:18am
Support comes in different forms.

Its what you consider support or not . Support doesnt mean that you shouldnt be warned of the pitfalls or letting you go in blindly. If you are struggling with an issue and dont know how to handle when ' he is in the same room ' , I guess, the best thing is to be not in the same room . Whats wrong about it ?
IMO, nothing .
Its how you define ' support '.
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Registered: 10-08-2010
Thu, 03-22-2012 - 11:11am
Again, please go away heissick. Your posts do not contribute to anyones support. They are usually mean and nasty and arrogant. You do not offer support, your solution is that we should not be on this situation to begin with so it is our own fault and we need to stop complaining about it because the whole idea of an affair is wrong so end the affair and we would not have these daily struggles. I realize that it is your right to post whereever and when ever but fo us a favor and find someone else to annoy. Your like the kid in school that always has to say something and have the last word just so you make yourself look and feel important but in reality, that makes others like you less. Sometimes less said is more and in your case that definately would be better accepted. So I am asking again, please leave and let us openly and freely discuss our issues without your comments .