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keep honest, open communication.
| Thu, 10-09-2008 - 4:15pm |
perception can destroy. when my AP went to drop me off today, we wound up talking about feelings, love ect. we wound up talking about that fateful day. my perception was i didn't think he cared, his perception was he didn't think i cared. he came to see me on the next day to talk to me about my emails, to tell me he recieved them, to tell me he loved me and cared about me, i broke down in tears today when he told me this. he perceived i was avoiding him because i didn't care about him, i perceived he didn't care. we got crossed, and he was hurt and took it personally. it almost destroyed our relationship. he told me he needed me and decided to contact me, and he missed me. l learned alot, keep honest, open communication. never perceive.

Very well said Tori !
I haven't posted on here for SO long.
It's been the old roller-coaster ride for a long time now because my MM hasn't been able to see me because of distance etc.
I think we, women, forget that men have feelings of in security too.