This is killing me
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This is killing me
| Fri, 07-18-2003 - 5:59pm |
My friend went out with another W last nite, and it really bothers me. I know he is a free agent now, since he is separated, but that green eyed monster is really rearing it's ugly head. He told me before hand that he was going, and I do respect his honesty. I just can't help how I feel. He knows how I feel about him, and when he mentioned her yesterday, he was quick to assure me that they are only friends. He says he feels sorry for her because she is new in town and doesn't really know anybody. I just have these ugly images of the two of them in my mind. I am really trying to banish these images, especially since he isn't mine. Well, just had to ge tthis out. Whew, I feel better now.
itty

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But rest assured that your MM will go out with this friend and be thinking that he could be with YOU the whole time. Also, maybe he enjoys knowing this will bug you... not to be mean, but to help assauge his ego since you are *choosing* to stay with H... and maybe he hopes you'll feel strongly enough to reconsider... who knows... but you know, for sure, that he is thinking of you when he is out with her. He's already reassured you and you didn't even ask!
-lily
duh...
lily
Stop planting those images into your mind! Weed them out, and sow other seeds - something that has you appreciating the beauty...like the fact that he really is a great friend, and is honest and up front with you...like the fact his friendship for you isn't based on feeling sorry for you...like the fact that he Still thinks of you!
I hope you really are feeling better.
Hugs,
Meow
I don't care what people say, Men are just as jealous and want their woman to be jealous too. maybe he's just trying to get a rise out of you, so give it to him, in an encouraging way, but with lots of questions... LIke say, how was dinner? What did you have? Is that a good restaurant?
LOL
=)
itty
Hugs,
itty
itty
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