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Kind of confused
| Fri, 08-20-2010 - 3:00am |
I was talking to a friend who knows that I am having an affair on my H and she told me that I don't love my husband. She said if I did love him I wouldn't be having an affair is she right?? I love my husband very much I just love the other guy too. I am confused because I know I love him but she thinks I don't. I have thought about leaving my H because I am cheating but I can't imagine my life without him. I also can't imagine my life without my other guy. They both mean the world to me. I only have a couple weeks left with my other guy my husband is going to be home at night which means no more sex or cuddling my other guy. I am really stressed out about this.

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You should take the A for what it is. Lot of them are very short. Yes, you can love them both. That happened with an A I had years ago, but we had a bad ugly Dday. Since then I have worked to keep emotions in check with AP. I have 2 and I like them, they are fun (in different ways) and they are good to me, but I don't love them. I do love my H even when I am po'd at him which is a lot of the time, lol. Sorry this probably isn't helpful but yes, I can see being in love with both H and AP.
-jana
I think that if you feel love for your H in your heart, then you do love him.