Kind of a poll, a WWYD?
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Kind of a poll, a WWYD?
| Fri, 07-11-2003 - 7:52am |
A post on here about MM getting OW pregnant made me think... I'd just like some thoughts on an issue the same, but the roles different...
What if a MW who is having an A with a OM or MM gets pregnant? What would you do? Do you tell your H? Do you tell OM? Do you raise the baby as your H's baby? Just all those situations apply. What would you do?
Just wondering if anyone has ever been in that situation and what did you do? Or if you've never been in that situation, what do you think you'd do?
I'm interested in hearing replies... Thanks,
~passion
*Forgot to add, this is just a poll... Not that I'm in this situation...*
Edited 7/11/2003 7:53:11 AM ET by ipassionfire

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I really don't know what I would do. I am M and there is a MM too. But our relationship is different. I don't have children now, and I don't think that I want any. I think that the decision would devastate me, but I don't think that I could go through with having my MM's child just because I already feel so strongly about not having children. (I'm not the maternal type and don't think that I would be very good at it.)
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I am not sure what I would do...I suppose I would have to have a heart to heart real talk with OM and see where he stood on it...but I also know that ppl can say things all day long but actually being there to do them is totally different. I would have to talk to my H about it too....depending on what they both said and how well I knew each of them I would go from there...if I knew 100% that it was not my H's I would have to come clean and tell the truth....it would hurt and take a long time to get over, if ever at all, but in the end it would be worth it. At least for my child. I have a friend that on a break from his W had a semi-R with a woman and she ended up pregnant....he still sees the child and is with his W...but I believe he thinks W resents the child...I don't think he cares though. But that is another story!! LOL
I am not sure if this helped...Red
How would you tell your H though?
~passion
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Sorry to those right to lifers, but I'm pro choice. That'd be my choice.
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