Knock some sense into me, please!!!!!!

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Registered: 01-08-2011
Knock some sense into me, please!!!!!!
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Thu, 03-22-2012 - 3:33pm

I want a baby and after my loss, it has consumed me to have one.

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Registered: 09-10-2010
Thu, 03-22-2012 - 4:01pm
((((( Kittery ))))))) I know what it's like to lose your baby... I'm still grieving the little one too. Would AP be willing to be the father of the child if you would just ask him? Hugs to you, Kittery!!!
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Registered: 10-03-2011
Thu, 03-22-2012 - 4:13pm

Hi kittery,

First of all hugs!!!

Right now you are grieving for the loss of the baby, and for the change in status of relationship between you and AP. Your feelings are going to be raw and all over the place. I know you feel you want this baby, but it just is not a good time. Let yourself calm and heal, and then see where you are at. Once you reach that point, you may realize you don't want another child. Or maybe you will realize that you do. And then at that point you can move forward in those plans. Planning to have a baby needs to be a rational decision so you know you are doing the right thing for the right reasons! Take one step at a time, okay? big hugs!

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Registered: 01-08-2011
Thu, 03-22-2012 - 5:03pm

AP and I are not broken up, as I thought we were.

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Registered: 09-10-2010
Fri, 03-23-2012 - 5:43am

Would you want to have a baby from another man? xoxoxo

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Registered: 01-08-2011
Fri, 03-23-2012 - 10:17am

No, I don't.

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Registered: 09-10-2010
Fri, 03-23-2012 - 3:23pm
And that's what is very important... peace.. I'm glad you have your peace back , kittery

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Sat, 03-24-2012 - 11:20am

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Registered: 01-08-2011
Sun, 03-25-2012 - 6:58pm

thank you both!

Ianman, interesting you would say that.

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Registered: 09-12-2005
Mon, 03-26-2012 - 3:32pm

Kittery, what do you mean being together ? As an AP ? Because if I remember correctly, he loves his W and is not willing to leave her ?

How long have you been "together" ?

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Mon, 03-26-2012 - 3:38pm

well he has talked about both in and out of the A.

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