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The laugh is on me
| Sun, 07-25-2010 - 4:42am |
Hi I just talked with the guy that has stolen my heart. The guy I was cuddling almost every night. The guy who is my brother-in-law. I just found out that he was cuddling me all those nights because he was doing it for me. He says he was very uncomfortable with the whole thing. Then I told him that I am not in love with my husband and he said don't tell me you love me. So I said yes. He then told me that when we were cuddling I was thinking of his brother my husband. Which is full of crap I was thinking of him. I spend a big part of my day thinking of him. When I have sex with my husband I think about my brother in law. I can't stop these feelings!!! I have tried I am so filled with anger right now that I want to scream!!!! I guess I realized that I am a really stupid person. I wish this would have never happened I want my old life back. I wish I could just sleep the night and days away.....Kaylee

you have to do what makes you happy..
perhaps you can separate from the hubs and spend time to yourself really thinking about what you are doing...
i say hands off the B I L
but, you have to decide what's best for you and what makes you happy...
i know it must be driving you stark raving mad thinking about the B I L when you are with the hubs....
take care of yourself and good luck ((HUGS))
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
he talked to your husband about you??? The two of you?? and your husband is still with you? Do you realize that if that if this comes out, it will not only break up your immediately family but up the line??? You will destroy your husband's family! Brother against Brother...dont you draw the line somewhere???
From what he said, it doesnt sound like he feels the same way about you.
Edited 7/25/2010 3:57 pm ET by brfl2009
Awww Kaylee, I'm sorry you're hurting, but it is absolutely best that you stay away from your B-I-L. I think I told you the last time you posted that it would rip apart your H's family. I can't even imagine his parents' reaction to this. That's why your fantasy of leaving your H for your B-I-L just shouldn't happen. Even if you don't care about your H or your in-laws, imagine what it would do to your B-I-L, who you claim to love, to lose his parents and his siblings by running off with you.
If you don't have the right feelings for your H, maybe you should think about leaving him. You're young, and so is he. You both could find the right person, and be happy! You both deserve that. Your daughter would accept it, if she had a happy mom and a happy dad.
Take care sweetie. I'm sorry for your pain.
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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