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learn from my lesson
| Thu, 07-15-2010 - 10:14pm |
I thought I'd share my story on this board because i feel for you all. I was involved with my MM for four years. Our relationship ended last month and I know it's permanent. I will never go back. Our A started when we worked together. We became friends and so began the A. We were as close as two people could be. We confided in each other the most personal things and within three months were were in love. We supported each other, believed in each other and

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Welcome to MAS lilyfay!
I'm sorry that you went through all that. I hope you are on your way to healing.
About your AP "rushing" to find another AP. I wouldn't automatically assume that it means you didn't mean much to him. He might be like me. All my life, if I had a painful break-up, I would rush into another relationship to "distract" myself from the pain. Trust me, the "rebound" R is usually so empty, and it didn't make me miss the person I was missing any less - it made it worse, and I was always comparing. The person I was missing always "won" the comparisons!
Many (((HUGS))) for what you are going through...
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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Hi Lilyfay,
I'm sorry about the way things went down in your relationship w/ MM. I dare say that I feel he did have strong feelings for you maybe even love and agree with CL-Lexione that he probably moved on to distract himself from what happened with you. I've had many men say that they do that & I'm also guilty in doing that myself. Just take comfort in knowing that you now know where you stand and you can move forwad with your life.
Wishing you all the best!
Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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Lily that's quite a story.
I have to agree with the others: I wouldn't discount his feelings for you because of this other woman.
anotherseyes
i feel exactly the same way, and am wondering what is wrong with me. my new supplement (#2)
I know it must be hard for you to accept that he isn't going to leave his wife while you dumped your H for him.
But remember it was just an affair & it happens get used to it .
oh ,and i forgot to ask what exactly is the lesson here to be learnt ?
your story is heartfelt and quite too common.. but you've acted the best way you know how at the time.. you've survived it and gained quite from it.. that must account for something..
pls excuse best.. we all do.. he has a condition..
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