Leaving the Board -

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2003
Leaving the Board -
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Wed, 09-10-2003 - 1:05pm
I havent posted here for awhile and posted a couple of times on the EA board. I guess I was hoping/looking for some *friendships* online so I could talk out my feelings about the A and my OM and my M...but seems everyone wants to SOLVE the problem.

This is just my opinion - and my 2 cents worth - but I think most people coming to this board are looking for a hug, an ear and someone to talk openly about their A without judgement. Maybe that happens more than it seems, but in my case.. well...I got lots of "YOU SHOULDs" and not many cyber shoulders to lean on. I know it is hard since this board is so big now, and that mostly everyone just reads the posts and moves on without answering. I am taking such a risk to sneak time on this board - for nothing! So, I am moving on- as they say.

Good Luck to everyone on this board...maybe ya'll will be better at finding that online buddy to share the sad and the happy moments with. I'll have to keep mine to myself now... or share them with the cat.

Chloe

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Registered: 07-29-2003
Fri, 09-12-2003 - 3:58pm
Lilah, here is a big hug ! Funny, my best friend and I were in a class together a few years back. She was already in there when I joined. Once we became close she told me how she had almost quit the class because of me. That I intimidated her before she got to know me. And, that I reminded her of all the "cheerleader" types in school that were ruthless to her. I understand. Thank you for sharing that with me. You were very honest. We may differ on views, but you made it crystal clear for me. Here is another hug !! I hope you get what youa re looking for, if indeed you haven't already found it.

Tink

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-30-2003
Fri, 09-12-2003 - 4:06pm
OK, you win lilah ;) It doesn't matter what you said or did not say. I am not refuting anything or don't have even the desire to refute. I am not too much into "look" talk anyways.

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