Let me Rave and re-introduce myself

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Registered: 06-10-2008
Let me Rave and re-introduce myself
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Wed, 08-26-2009 - 8:04pm

Hello Everybody!


I haven't been on this board in well over a year now. Too busy chasing women LOL. I slightly remember the SN of benska2003 but not really sure. Is Chrissie still here? She was the first to post a pic of herself here!


Anyway I just wanted to rave about affairs. Yes society deems them wrong etc. but my experience has been SO GOOOOD !


I openly tell a woman upfront that I am married and it is up to her if she wants to continue talking to me. All are shocked at first but find it incredibly refreshing and brutally honest what I am doing that their sheer curiosity enables them to talk with me.


Most of these women have become great friends of mine but amazing friends ! I would not have met these women had I not pursued a mistress to replace the one I had in January of this year. I struggled for 8 mos about having an affair and since I did it I never looked back.


I am totally hooked on this lifestyle. It's exciting, energizing and makes me feel alive and wanted. I have profiles all over the place and meet very unique and interesting people..mostly friends now but eventually I will find a new mistress.


I tell my W I am going out and I do - go to bars, clubs even parties it's awesome!


Do I expect you to agree with what I am doing? NO. Do I care..NO.


So for those of you considering an affair or already in one I wish that you find what it is you are looking for and hope you get the adrenaline rush that many people just don't have the guts to experience for themselves and never will.

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Registered: 06-10-2009
Wed, 09-16-2009 - 10:19pm

"You're a dude right?"

Right you are. I like to look in on this board from time to time to see if any of the ladies here can appreciate where many of us guys are seeing things in so far as relationships.
Surprisingly, very few seem to be able to see the analogy.

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Registered: 08-09-2009
Wed, 09-16-2009 - 11:15pm

There are a lot of us that like to view things from a males POV here. I like to think i am one. Undercovercrab also has stated she has a mans brain in a womens body.

When M10 made the OP, he came across as boasting and obnoxious. It was that particular tone that got on the goats of a few - especially me. I have no problem at all that he is living his "dream" but further into this he is showing the cracks in his facade. His attitude seems to be a ruse and it took 40+ posts to get there. People here want to genuinely offer advice or discuss his issues if he would stop beating his chest and just get to the point. All that fluff at first just put people offside.

After all this IS MAS so we here have all been through some part of an A and are in no position to throw stones.

SB

Que Sera Sera - Whatever will be, will be.
Que Sera Sera - Whatever will be, will be.
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Registered: 04-04-2009
Thu, 09-17-2009 - 5:04am
Well, hello, mister, I just read all the 44 other messages, and being the curious woman that I am: since you say you are so gorgeous why don't you post a picture of yourself?
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Registered: 08-17-2009
Thu, 09-17-2009 - 7:50am

This board is called My Affair SUPPORT.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-14-2009
Thu, 09-17-2009 - 12:13pm
I agree...I have decided not to even respond
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-10-2009
Thu, 09-17-2009 - 6:52pm
Yours is the most honest post of all. I think mister is just displaying that which he and other men view when we read the chronicles of various affairs on this board. The primary difference is that he apparently makes no attempt to hide his actions from his wife.
As I see it, he chooses to stay in his marriage in order to maintain the lifestyle he and his family have grown accustom to having. I fail to see ANY difference in his story and that of any number of other posters on this board if one chooses to disregard the fact that he is openly doing it.
As far as his "need" to post a photo of his alleged "good looks", where would one look to find the "many" other members of this board who have chosen to do the same?
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Registered: 07-09-2008
Thu, 09-17-2009 - 9:17pm

Tellonem-


I am glad that you are posting because we do need more male opinions on this board.

 

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