LIBERAL IS CRASHING - I need support
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LIBERAL IS CRASHING - I need support
| Tue, 08-19-2003 - 2:07pm |
His "I'll call you back in a little bit" has turned into almost 3 days and still no call...
| Tue, 08-19-2003 - 2:07pm |
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He finally called this morning. He was extremely cocky about it all and blew it off as it was something minuscule like usual. Basically he asked me what I expected of him and I said I expect you to call when you say you're gonna call even if you have to sneak away for a minute. I seem to find a way to do this...he seemed to think I was specifically talking only about him not being able to see me (which I still think if he planned a little harder he could have). He was being smart and said "what do you want me to do tell her she cant go with me because Im not really going to do this or that, Im going to see my girlfriend" That ticked me off because Im not stupid and didnt appreciate his lack of understanding for my situation.
A wise friend raised a great point earlier this week. She asked me if I had evern seen "The Green Mile" and if I recalled the powers the enormous black man had to transfer the pain one bestowed upon another back onto the offender...I asked OM if he had seen that movie and told him I wish just once I had that power to show him how his actions affect me. That didnt seem to phase him much. I feel like he thinks it's my problem to deal with how I react to him and in a way I know that it is. My problem is this...for a man that loves me he certainly should be able to take my feelings into consideration and he certainly should make more of a point to see me than he does. He calls enough but I cant recall one time in over a year he's initiated us meeting....I guess he doesnt have to because I always have...
Somedays I just wonder if this really is worth it - the chances I take and the frustration I feel so often and the feelings I have that I can rarely act on - does it really ever get easier????
Liberal
What I'm saying is that if he's being cocky and rude to you, you KNOW you don't deserve to be treated like that. He obviously doesn't realize how lucky he is to be with you. I would be unavailable to him FOREVER, or until he came back with an attitude transplant!!
You cannot make him do the right thing, but you can teach him how to treat you well. I would urge you to do that immediately. Give him some serious distance.
Good luck!!
He's rude, he's selfish, and he's with you because you do all the work and make it easy for him. What's in it for you?
He needs a sharp, stilleto heel jabbed in a sensitive, well-placed part of his crotch.
It will never get easier for you because right now, he has no intention of doing a damn thing. How long are you willing to put up with that? And WHY????
Liberal, you can not get away from this guy fast enough. He has so little regard for your needs and feelings... does he treat his W this way too? I would be amazed if she weren't cheating on him!
please take care of yourself. Get out of this.
-lily
Minni
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