I haven't updated in a while.
janejosie wrote:I haven't updated in a while.
Wow...about your exH. but who knows. he's only been with the woman for 3 months, shes in the process of a D. Anything could happen at this point with their relationship. Most people can't truly know another in just 3 short months.
To me it appears that N. American men don't do much chasing LOL .
Hi jane...thanks so much for replying to my post, it really helped!
As to your life now, I can only say KUDOS. I hear you about the husband...mine kind of went nuts as well. Well, maybe not nuts ~ but certainly out of character for him. He must have slept with 3-4 different women...all of them real super choices. Not. Luckily, he realized that he was not ready for anything to go too far with any of them.
sireanita wrote:To me it appears that N. American men don't do much chasing LOL .
They've been conditioned not to.
My friend (N. American) who used to organize trips for college age students to south America told me that the girls enjoyed the attention and the complements they received by Latin American men in the streets and they took it as a sign of genuine interest.
He often told them with surprise: you would slap me if I had approached you in that manner back home!