Life Now

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Registered: 03-26-2010
Life Now
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Tue, 03-06-2012 - 11:25pm

I haven't updated in a while.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-12-2005
In reply to: janejosie
Wed, 03-07-2012 - 10:28am
janejosie wrote:

I haven't updated in a while.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-08-2010
In reply to: janejosie
Wed, 03-07-2012 - 9:21pm
JJ, I have no advice as I have not been through a divorce but I would say not to give up. It sounds as though you are at peace with most things despite the rollercoaster you have been on for a while and while I understand wanting to find someone, don't push, it will come to you. (((Hugs))) and I admire your strenth and spunk.
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Registered: 10-03-2011
In reply to: janejosie
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 12:39am

Wow...about your exH. but who knows. he's only been with the woman for 3 months, shes in the process of a D. Anything could happen at this point with their relationship. Most people can't truly know another in just 3 short months.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-18-2009
In reply to: janejosie
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 11:13am
janejosie wrote:

I haven't updated in a while.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-12-2005
In reply to: janejosie
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 11:52am

To me it appears that N. American men don't do much chasing LOL .

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Registered: 05-17-2003
In reply to: janejosie
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 12:22pm

Hi jane...thanks so much for replying to my post, it really helped!

As to your life now, I can only say KUDOS. I hear you about the husband...mine kind of went nuts as well. Well, maybe not nuts ~ but certainly out of character for him. He must have slept with 3-4 different women...all of them real super choices. Not. Luckily, he realized that he was not ready for anything to go too far with any of them.

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Registered: 10-18-2009
In reply to: janejosie
Thu, 03-08-2012 - 12:36pm
sireanita wrote:

To me it appears that N. American men don't do much chasing LOL .

They've been conditioned not to.

My friend (N. American) who used to organize trips for college age students to south America told me that the girls enjoyed the attention and the complements they received by Latin American men in the streets and they took it as a sign of genuine interest.

He often told them with surprise: you would slap me if I had approached you in that manner back home!