You said "light HIS fire" on the title and then the link said to light YOUR fire? Are you teasing us, luv? ;-) LOL Why would chatting with a realtionship adviser when DH is around would be a problem? Are you going to be chatting about your OMs ?? :-)
ellen has a book for guys called 'light her fire' and one for women 'light his fire' i have both of them. gave one to dh years ago, he obviously hasn't picked it up for awhile.
but i have to honestly say...the past 3 weeks that om and have haven't spoken (since he's apparently too busy to chat) dh and i have been doing very well. all of sudden our sex life is the best it's been in years. not sure if it's because om isn't around (although in the past when we weren't speaking our sex life was still blah).
i'm just hoping om continues to not speak to me for another 3 weeks so i can enjoy a vacation with dh and sort through all my mixed emotions.
i'm still on the fence as far as how i feel about om at this point..esp since dh is giving me tons of attention and romance.
ellen has a book for guys called 'light her fire' and one for women 'light his fire' i have both of them. gave one to dh years ago, he obviously hasn't picked it up for awhile.
but i have to honestly say...the past 3 weeks that om and have haven't spoken (since he's apparently too busy to chat) dh and i have been doing very well. all of sudden our sex life is the best it's been in years. not sure if it's because om isn't around (although in the past when we weren't speaking our sex life was still blah).
i'm just hoping om continues to not speak to me for another 3 weeks so i can enjoy a vacation with dh and sort through all my mixed emotions.
i'm still on the fence as far as how i feel about om at this point..esp since dh is giving me tons of attention and romance.