On a lighter side

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Registered: 11-13-2008
On a lighter side
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Mon, 11-24-2008 - 1:24pm

There is so much pain in the posts that i thought of reminding ourselves the good points of our AP's.

1. Physical Appearance : whats the best asset of your AP? do you like it as well or something that is not so visible but you admire it secretly.

2. When you close your eyes thinking about your AP, what comes to your mind first?

3. Any incidence that still brings smile on your face even when you are sad and makes it worth staying?

4. What is the best trait of your AP that you wish would never change?

5. Whats the worst trait of your AP that you wish would just disappear?

If you have anything to add, feel free to do so but remember to bring out all the positives;-)

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Mon, 11-24-2008 - 1:39pm

I'll play mine..

1. Physical Appearance : whats the best asset of your AP? do you like it as well or something that is not so visible but you admire it secretly.

My AP has six pack which makes him sooooo sexy and i love it.i love every piece of him.

2. When you close your eyes thinking about your AP, what comes to your mind first?

That i love him and cant imagine my life w/o him.The way he makes me feel beautiful, pretty,sexy and loved.

3. Any incidence that still brings smile on your face even when you are sad and makes it worth staying?

Once we had planned a nigh at my place and his W called just to check on him as he was not home when he promised to take her for dinner.He had planned two dates together! I was not angry at him for doing so as he is known at work to forget things and i make post its on his board.He chose to spend the night with me:)

4. What is the best trait of your AP that you wish would never change?

His love for me.

5. Whats the worst trait of your AP that you wish would just disappear?

His way of putting things off for later, a later which comes sooo late!

Many times the sad outweighs the good but when thought over , it for sure outweighs the bad! funny,huh!

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Registered: 02-22-2008
Mon, 11-24-2008 - 2:46pm

1. Physical Appearance : whats the best asset of your AP? do you like it as well or something that is not so visible but you admire it secretly.

Apart from is eyes ? His cute little butt.... Well, his whole body actually. He works out almost every day and keeps him self very fit for 51. Mmmmmmmm McYummy !

2. When you close your eyes thinking about your AP, what comes to your mind first?

His beautiful eyes and his smile.... *sigh*

3. Any incidence that still brings smile on your face even when you are sad and makes it worth staying?

Where to start ? I told him I would turn my cell off at 11:00 am (as I was is church), and could he please leave me a message. After church, when I checked my messages, there was one from him. He called 11:01. His dark, sexy voice left a message saying: I just called.... to say.....I love you... And then he laughed. Later I asked him why he laughed, and he said that he suddenly realised he should have been singing....

4. What is the best trait of your AP that you wish would never change?

His love for me :)

5. Whats the worst trait of your AP that you wish would just disappear?

He's always so very very busy. And he keeps making promises it's impossible for him to keep. He alsays has the best intentions, - but.... There never seems to be enough tome for everything he wants to do.

If you have anything to add, feel free to do so but remember to bring out all the positives;-)

He is the only man I know who has read the whole book: "Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps: How We're Different and What to Do About it", and he actually understood what he had been reading too. Enough to discuss it with me. I was impressed.

The way he makes me feel. He is a true gentleman and treats me like a queen when we're together. He makes me feel like the most desireable, the most beautiful, sexiest and loved woman in the whole world. He creates magic.... he IS magic.......

Oh, and did I mention that I love this guy ? :))))


Edwina
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Registered: 02-09-2008
Mon, 11-24-2008 - 5:49pm

I'm pretty unhappy with AP right now over something he said yesterday, but I'll play.

1. Physical Appearance : whats the best asset of your AP? do you like it as well or something that is not so visible but you admire it secretly.

Oh his eyes and he has such thick dark eyelashes. And his strong arms when he wraps them around me.

2. When you close your eyes thinking about your AP, what comes to your mind first?

Those arms around me and the sound of his voice when he whispers in my ear.

3. Any incidence that still brings smile on your face even when you are sad and makes it worth staying?

There are many. Probably sitting together in a little place just being together and eating sushi.

4. What is the best trait of your AP that you wish would never change?

The look of pleasure/happiness on his face when he first sees me.

5. Whats the worst trait of your AP that you wish would just disappear?

His guilt.

If you have anything to add, feel free to do so but remember to bring out all the positives;-)

He listens to me and remembers things that I've said, weeks or months later. He reads all the emails I write and asks me questions about how I felt when I wrote something or what I meant by it.

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Registered: 06-26-2006
Mon, 11-24-2008 - 8:58pm

What a fun game!


1. Physical Appearance : whats the best asset of your AP? do you like it as well or something that is not so visible but you admire it secretly.


Well, an obvious thing that I'm sure all women love about him is his rock hard body. He works out 5 times a week (we're gym buddies, actually and he's whipping me into shape!), and it SHOWS. Something more particular is his hair. I can't explain what about it makes him look so sexy to me, but it *does* and he lets me play with it whenever I want.


2. When you close your eyes thinking about your AP, what comes to your mind first?


His smile. I know what they mean when they describe smiles as "disarming". Even if I'm having

 

 

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Registered: 01-10-2007
Mon, 11-24-2008 - 9:14pm

1. Physical Appearance : whats the best asset of your AP? do you like it as well or something that is not so visible but you admire it secretly.

His smile---he has dimples when he gives a big smile :-)

2. When you close your eyes thinking about your AP, what comes to your mind first?

This picture I have of him. He's staring right at me (I took the picture). The look he gives says dirty things---LOL!

3. Any incidence that still brings smile on your face even when you are sad and makes it worth staying?

Nothing in particular actually.

4. What is the best trait of your AP that you wish would never change?

We share so many of the same traits. We really understand each other like my H & I don't or he & his W don't. We're both going through a lot of the same issues at the moment & we just get each other.

5. Whats the worst trait of your AP that you wish would just disappear?

Um the wedding ring (both of us) & the fact that HE just disappears at times & so I won't hear from him for days. I also don't like that we don't actually ever see each other---this is all email now :-(

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Registered: 01-16-2007
Mon, 11-24-2008 - 9:23pm

1. Physical Appearance : whats the best asset of your AP? do you like it as well or something that is not so visible but you admire it secretly.


Oh he is so SEXY!

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Registered: 08-31-2008
Tue, 11-25-2008 - 10:17am

What a nice thread, thank you!

1. Physical Appearance : whats the best asset of your AP? do you like it as well or something that is not so visible but you admire it secretly.
He is very good looking man...gorgeous dark hair, the most kissable lips, it just makes me melt to look at him:)

2. When you close your eyes thinking about your AP, what comes to your mind first?
How he kisses me, how gentle he is, how he always seem to think about me.

3. Any incidence that still brings smile on your face even when you are sad and makes it worth staying?
After he kissed me for the first time, he caught his breath ans said "Damn it, that was good!!"

4. What is the best trait of your AP that you wish would never change?
He is soft-spoken, kind and generous. He puts up with my moods and angry outbursts toward him. Tries to make me feel better when I am upset.

5. Whats the worst trait of your AP that you wish would just disappear?
He is indecisive, spineless coward. He loves me, but he is still married. Arrrrrgh!!

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Tue, 11-25-2008 - 1:11pm

Wow ! I am so glad that we all have something to share which makes us happy.i guess we are gonna need lots of such reminders in the holidays to come!!

Happy Thanksgiving.

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Registered: 06-22-2008
Tue, 11-25-2008 - 1:30pm

1. Physical Appearance : whats the best asset of your AP? do you like it as well or something that is not so visible but you admire it secretly.


Gotta love his smile..or sometimes it's a boyish smirk


2. When you close your eyes thinking about your AP, what comes to your mind first?


His smile, tender touch and kisses


3. Any incidence that still brings smile on your face even when you are sad and makes it worth staying?


He actually listens to me and that makes it worth it.

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Registered: 11-21-2008
Tue, 11-25-2008 - 1:43pm

1. Physical Appearance : whats the best asset of your AP? do you like it as well or something that is not so visible but you admire it secretly.

His gorgeous face and smile and eyes! There is another part of him that I adore.... figure it out.

2. When you close your eyes thinking about your AP, what comes to your mind first?

His low sexy voice, his eyes and smile, how wonderful it feels to kiss him

3. Any incidence that still brings smile on your face even when you are sad and makes it worth staying?

The fact that a text from me can distract him so easily from work or whatever he is doing

4. What is the best trait of your AP that you wish would never change?

How much he loves his kids and how he would do anything for them.

5. Whats the worst trait of your AP that you wish would just disappear?

The thousands of miles of distance between us and the fact that we have to hide.