A little about me...
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| Mon, 03-29-2010 - 2:22pm |
So I'm your new CL. We've been lacking a CL here for awhile, and I might be a bit different from previous CLs. I have huge boots to fill, and I'll do my best, but.. like I said there are huge boots to fill! All the previous CLs have my utmost respect.
I know I'll be a bit different from some previous CLs. For one thing, I am actively involved in an affair. There's only one other CL, since I've been here, who was in that situation. For the most part, CLs have been "in the open" in real life - so that they didn't need to "hide" their identities so much. Not me. I have to stay under cover. And this means I can never be as open as I'd like to be about the simplest things. I'm very cautious about what I share here. You'll never know exactly how old I am or how many children I have or exactly where I live or what my life situation is; on other message boards I frequent I can chatter away about upcoming milestones and events and where I'm going or what I'm doing. I can meet cyberfriends from those places for lunch or breakfast if they are passing through. Not here. I can never share with you the things I share with them.
But I CAN share with you the things I CAN'T share with them. You'll know more about my "real" self than they will. You all, my dears, have been "compartmentalized" into my "affair life".
And that's a fact of many of our lives, isn't it? At least it is for those of us who are married, plan to stay married, and are involved in an A.
So I will share what I can, support you when I can, maybe be a little blunter than I should at times - but forgive me - together maybe we can all make this place the best it can be!


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Congratulations cl-lexione,
I think you are an awesome choice for the job...your advice is always so very sound.
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Hi Lexione!
Congratualtions! I kinda lurk a lot! I feel my story is way too obvious, and if I told anything about myself and my A, it would give me away!
But I will try to write more often, because it really helps! I wish I could be more detailed sometimes, just to get it down and out of my head.
Takenforaride
I'm not sure I'm on the right board anymore since my A is no longer an A. I left my marriage and am currently with my AP (who is now my boyfriend). I understand not being able to share all information - I longed to post on this board before I left my marriage because I NEEDED someone who understood. But, fear prevented me from doing so. I read the board and would shake my head thinking "I know exactly how you feel!" but didn't have the courage to post - even under a different username.
I would like to be here to offer advice, support or just understanding even if I'm no longer in the A (and know that I won't ever be in another one as I know I've met "the one").
If you all are uncomfortable with me being here, please.. let me know and I will go (and I won't be offended!).
Congrats Lexione. :)
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I'm not uncomfortable with you at all earnhardt.jr.fan.
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