a little off the subject...

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a little off the subject...
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Mon, 07-21-2003 - 10:28pm
but it has a lot to do with my life.

How much do guys really care about the size of a girls chest. To put it bluntly, I'm small chested. I have a very small waist, nice legs and a nice butt to make up for it, but the size of my chest is something that I always worry about. I'd love guys and girls opinions on this. I'd like to hear what other small chested women think and like to hear what guys think. Any thoughts would be great, thanks.

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Registered: 07-05-2003
Tue, 07-22-2003 - 1:20am
light,

i too am small chested, I once had a guy tell me, you'd be fine if you just had bigger boobs! I'll never forget that, and that was like 9 yrs ago.!

not all men are breast men, and I make up for it in my other great areas, like yourself. My H and my MM love my boobs, so they say, but when I have the money, i will get them augmented, that's just me, but I know it'll make me feel better about them.

You have 2 choices, deal with what you got, and flaunt your best assests, or buy bigger ones! LOL

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 07-22-2003 - 7:00am
Some men are breast men. They like big boobs. Other men like legs, butts. Big boobs can get saggy though later on. Small boobs stay perkier longer. There's an expression "More than a handful is wasted." I think it's really romantic when a guy tells you he likes your eyes and face, besides other parts of your anatomy. If you augment, do it for you, not for some guy. Be best if you end up with someone who loves you just the way you are.
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Registered: 04-22-2003
Tue, 07-22-2003 - 8:59am
I am small chested too, and ya know what? I am just fine how I am, since I am small all over, I would look out of proportion if they were bigger. And I look at it this way, if someone doesn't like me for the size of my breasts, that's their problem. You shouldn't hinge your self esteem on what other people think about you, especially on physical assets, (or lack of them). Besides I have had alot of guys tell me they don't like big boobs, that they prefer them small. I think alot more guys think this way than we know. I seem to attract olot of "butt" men. I suggest you use the attributes you do have and stop worrying about what you don't have.

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itty

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Registered: 05-23-2003
Tue, 07-22-2003 - 10:03am
Lightning,

A blunt reply...

I'm nuts for small boobs. Nothing cooler to me than a woman with small boobs in a t-shirt or a bikini top or a sleeveless blouse. And nothing sexier than a woman who doesn't care that her clothes prove to the world that she's got small boobs. That's a woman, IMHO.

I may be different from most, but over the years I have actually passed on more than one woman because she had bigger boobs than I cared to see/touch. I'm just not turned on to 'hooters' (the boobs or the restaurant). I like it when she lies on her back and there is no cleavage. That's a woman, IMHO.

And think of the future...when you small chested women are 80, you'll have perky little ti**ies and drive us all mad! Who needs Viagra! :--)

--LG




Edited 7/23/2003 8:33:31 AM ET by leviguy

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Tue, 07-22-2003 - 11:47am
LMAO!!! You said it LG! I have small boobs and have never had any complaints from the guys I've been with. I love wearing tight shirts and not feel like I "have" to wear a bra all the time. And forget running.... since I work out a lot I'm glad I don't have to deal with all that pain and bouncing my larger chested friends always complained about.

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Registered: 07-03-2003
Tue, 07-22-2003 - 9:53pm
It's your choice to get implants, but in my honest opinion, it seems like every young woman is getting implants nowadays. To me that says that not enough girls are getting the message that everyone is different and any type of body or breasts can be beautiful. You don't have to have big boobs to be attractive. Like others said, some guys like big boobs, some don't. And if the one reason a man doesn't like you is because of your bra size, that's ridiculous. You should tell him you don't like him because his penis is too small. :)
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Tue, 07-22-2003 - 10:07pm
I'm small busted too, but I'm small all over with a nice butt and legs too. Mine personally have never really bothered me at all, though I have thought about augmenting them...just a little anyways. I personally have never had a guy complain or say anything about my breasts in any negative way. Both my MM and my husband say they love them (mmm, what's wrong with that sentence...lol) Anyways, I too love not having to wear a bra all the time and I can wear just about anything..plus wear all the super cute bras that my bigger busted friend complains about all the time!
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Tue, 07-22-2003 - 10:16pm
rofl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Registered: 05-18-2003
Wed, 07-23-2003 - 12:21am
Hi LightningBlond,

My married secretary just had hers done. She said it was for her, and I believe her, but she also said her husband wanted her to do it. Very honestly, she doesn't look any different to me, but then I haven't seen her naked.

One of my exes had implants, and they were large, and rock hard. She had no feeling in them and one of them went flat on her and she had to have it redone.

Personally, I think their is so much about a woman to like, why would anyone just focus on her breasts. I mean, take a look at a woman with really nice legs, or petite ankles, or a beautiful head of hair, or a shapely butt, or lovely lips. I have never understood the obsession with breasts. It must be a "Playboy" thing.

I would rather be with a woman who has a great personality and brings lots of enthusiasm to the relationship than with a woman who has a playboy body. And, yes, I have been with both. Of course, I appreciate the perfect body, who wouldn't? But that is just fulfilling the fantasy. The reality is, I would rather be with someone that interests me more than just sexually, after all we will spend more time not having sex than we will having sex.

Also, any man who comments negatively about your body, any part of it, is just plain stupid and doesn't deserve to be with you.

So, bottom line...don't worry about boob size. It just doesn't matter. Honest.

Rogue

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Registered: 07-05-2003
Wed, 07-23-2003 - 12:40am
unless you're in an EMA then you spend more time having sex then doing anything else! LOL except for the phone calls and emails!!

it was just a joke!!

=)

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