The little thing they do

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The little thing they do
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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 8:07pm
Hello all. Hope you each had a good week, and were able to see your SO's.

Had such a lovely lunch with my MM. He picked up lunch and we met at this retaining wall by the river. It was warm, sunny and breezy, we talked, laughed and kissed (when no one was round). But it was afterwards that REALLY made me smile. He emailed me and "thanked me" for taking time out of my day to have lunch with him!! And this isn't the first time he has done this. I don't know why, but this small gesture means so much to me.

What little thing does your MM/OM/OW/MW do that brings a smile to your face?

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Registered: 04-01-2004
Fri, 04-23-2004 - 10:28pm


you know how in the soap opera you see the woman thinking about the man and she

is wondering if he is thinking of her - and then it split screens to the man

and HE IS thinking of her - - - well this one night when I was driving home

I could see the moon and it was this little itty bitty

crescent shape - it looked like it was smiling at me and then there was this

really bright star above the moon and it was as if the moon was smiling and winking

at me -

Anyway --- the next time I had a conversation with MM I told him how beautiful the moon was that night before - well he ALSO had been looking at the moon and had said that at the moment he was looking at the moon he was wondering if I was thinking of him and he was wondering what I was doing...he said from now on when we are apart and wondering what the other is thinking about or missing the other person we have to only look to the moon and know I am looking at that same moon and thinking of you too...

Kikki

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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 10:50pm
i'd have to say omaha just plain loving me puts a smile on my face. i'll get little msgs from him on my phone during the day that brings a great big grin from ear to ear, makes sitting through class a lot easier. Then once in a while i'll recieve a fancy note from him (loveletters.com) that tells me how much he cares for me and loves me. um, the way he never wants to get off the phone at night, the way he takes 60 bucks and 6 hours to come see me at the drop of a dime, the way he made a CD of songs that make him think of me, the way he told all of you about me... the way that i know after fighting time and distance he will be there for me at the end of the day. we carry each other, love each other and need each other. meant to be i suppose... and the best part of it all is, we will.

enjoy your weekends

IS

i love you omaha

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Fri, 04-23-2004 - 11:43pm
The way he asked me the other night if I was okay with having sex the way we were lately.

We haven't had much "alone time". We've met in groups with others, but haven't had that time just to ourselves. So the short time we've had left of the night together these last couple times have been mostly all sex.

Of course, we were mid-embrace when he asked me this, which made it all the more ahhhh...of course I'm okay with this....

But the fact that he had the courtesy to ask me if I was okay with this sexual focus of our relationship right now made me feel really great, like he was saying that I was more to him than just sex, but the circumstances sort of made us go into our "fast and furious" mode to make the most intense use of our time.

Yeah, I do like it :)

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Sat, 04-24-2004 - 7:51pm
I love the way that MM always seems to find a way to touch me in some casual way if others are around. And of course the way he touches me when nobody is around!

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Sat, 04-24-2004 - 10:49pm
Every time after we have sex, OM tells me how sexy my body is! It's just a few words, but it makes me melt every time. After having sex with my H, he just rolls over and falls asleep or watches TV. OM makes me feel beautiful and sexy before, during, AND after we have sex!
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Sun, 04-25-2004 - 3:53pm
My guy does a couple of things. First of all, he's known for being the 'candy man' at work. He has 4 different containers of candy in his office and people are always stopping by for some. It's pretty good stuff, most of the time. Bargain stuff others. BUT....he keeps a special box of my favorite candy bar in a drawer in his file cabinet that is just for me. Even the couple of other people he will let into his own stash, he won't tell them about my stuff. It's just for me.

Another thing is on my days off, when I have the kids staying with me, he'll pick up the day's local paper and New York Times and deliver them to my door, along with a dozen very decadent donuts for the kids.

And here are some silly ones: he holds doors open for me (and is the one to lock my apartment door when we leave); he caresses me all the time; he ruffles my hair at the office when he just can't keep his hands off me and needs a safe way to touch me, and he calls me sweetheart. I've never had a guy do all those little things for me and they are such sweet things to do.

Lucky

PS - I once had a boyfriend who insisted on walking between me and the street. And insisted on having his arm over my shoulder at the same time. His logic was that if a car was going to hit one of us, he wanted me to be safe, and the arm over my shoulder was to push me out of the way, lol!!!!




Edited 4/25/2004 4:01 pm ET ET by luckyme814

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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 8:23am
When he calls after a successful meeting to share his good news with me... or after he takes a test and passes (MM just bought a real estate company, so he's taking the realtor classes and exams)....when he calls me on his way home - just to chat. When he's able to pop over and surprise me.... when he just hugs me so close and tight that I never want to let go....