Little things you love about your MM...

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Little things you love about your MM...
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Thu, 11-13-2003 - 1:13pm
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Edited 6/1/2004 10:46 pm ET ET by charlotte1203

 

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Registered: 10-06-2003
Thu, 11-13-2003 - 1:21pm
well i wish i could meet my om..but we have talked on webcam.

i love how gentle and understanding he is of the situation i'm in and things i have gone through.

he has THE SEXIEST smile ever. just makes me melt.

he is confident and strong willed. i've only seen him down once and it really made me see how life can get to him too and we aren't always so confident.

he has an incredibly sexy voice. his voice comforts me.

ok this is making me sad..we have had nc for one month now.

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Registered: 10-24-2003
Thu, 11-13-2003 - 1:29pm
Hey! You're seeing my MM! lol Your MM sounds alot like mine, except he doesn't wear glasses. I love his easy going manner, and the way when we are having lunch or dinner, he turns off his cell phone. Unlike H who will take a business call at anytime - this included one anniversary dinner where he talked on the phone the entire last half of the meal, and then through coffee - what a prince!

Another thing I like is he can easily say "I'm sorry", even if he's five minutes late. I can count on one hand how many times H has said he was sorry, and the lack of sincerity. And as silly as it sounds, this growling sounds he makes after a long kiss....then pulls me back and kisses me even more passionately.

Like your MM, mine is so intelligent. Wish I could say where he went to school, the degree he has, and what he does. But for someone who isn't easily impressed, this man knocked me on my heels when he told me. Something about very intelligent men that I find SOOOOOO sexy!

In bed....ah well, it's all about me. Like it's is mission to please me, never rushes.

Enjoy floating on cloud nine today (and I suspect tomorrow), Charlotte! I'm still floating from Saturday!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 11-13-2003 - 1:34pm
ohhh, goody, i get to brag!!

my MM is sooo damn good-looking, tall, muscular, smart and can do anything. he makes me feel safe, like he would protect me from the world. MM makes me laugh, and blush, and drool. oh, i'm saying way too much, but i can't help it!

MM is also quiet, watchful, loves to drive fast and experiment sexually! and he actually reads books and can discuss them in depth! he never forgets anything, including my dress and shoe sizes and our "anniversary".

MM calls when he says he will, also checks in with me before the end of my day to see how i am and to see goodnight, wish i were there!

MM has great light brown eyes and JUST came out of surgery for an eye problem. he just called for like 2 minutes to let me know he was out of surgery and doing okay. and the doctor said the problem is fixed! MM knew i was waiting to hear from him and worried about the surgery since i couldn't, of course, be there with him. he is a kind man too!

but MM is possessive and jealous of any of my free time. he wants to know where i am at all times, but keeps his negative vibes in check because i'm not his W, just his GF, part-time. but all in all, MM is a wonderful person that i'm very happy to know and have as part of my life!

thanks charlotte for letting me post all my thoughts!

gurl

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Thu, 11-13-2003 - 1:50pm
Wow! I'm starting to think we are all having A with same MM?!?!?!? LOL

He is tall and really takes care of himself- dresses impeccably and is so damn cute it drives me NUTS! Gorgeous eyes, I love it when he wears his glasses though.

The best part though is that he's so incredibly thoughful, attentive- never forgets the important things like dates, sizes, etc. He notices immediately if anything is differnt with me, he even noticed one time when I tried new shampoo that my hair smelled different.

He's just got that perfect gentleman suave maturity and sophistication. He walks in to a room and people immediately know he's someone that is professional and intelligent.

We also have this incredible music connection- I can't explain it but it's very eery and he makes sure I always know. He takes care of all the little things, makign sure he calls me at least once a day or sneaks an email out, always finding ways to let me know he's thinking of me. He even gives me cards just because! I didn't think men did that sort of thing- my favorite, he was out with his family shopping and picked me up a card. How he snuck that past I don't know but it let me know that even then he was thinking of me.

I think it's very interesting that possessiveness and jealous type keep coming up- my MM admits this is his biggest vice but he works very hard to keep it in check. He's only gotten visibly upset once when another man was giving me too much attention but I have to admit it was kind of nice. Otherwise he just holds it in and admits it to me later.

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Registered: 11-11-2003
Thu, 11-13-2003 - 2:02pm
Like the thread...

The thing that gets me about my mm is that the guy cracks me up. He is so incredibly funny...

He writes me love emails...tells me everything he likes about me.

He goes pretty deep and isn't afraid to do so.

He is so generous in the bedroom...always wants to make it about me, and experiment.

He has the most amazing eyes cuz they change color and a smile to die for.

He does this thing...its so silly and i can't believe i am going to share this...

When we hang out, he likes to play with my feet so he always takes off my shoes and socks if i have them on....and then....he will clean my toes of any sock lint. I asked him...what are you doing...he said...you don't want this little guy hanging out with you...and he pointed to a small piece of lint sitting between my toes, I thought it was something gross but he thinks its so cool.

ugh...i could on forever...but i don't want to bore you guys...He is just so amazing.

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Registered: 05-24-2003
Thu, 11-13-2003 - 2:13pm
Was thinking maybe I don't 'belong' here anymore, lol, since I'm filing for divorce, but I miss you all so much!

What do I love about OM? Hmmm...his laugh when he's really, really laughing, not the polite giggle, but his full bodied laugh. I love how sincere his eyes are when he pays me a compliment. I love his knight-in-shining-armor complex, because he knows where to draw the line and support my independence. I love how he can love me, yet isn't afraid to call my BS for what it is - he says he'd never do something to risk losing me but he's not afraid to maintain balance, either. He indulges me shamelessly, yet something about how he does it calls me to want to reciprocate without him ever saying anything about expecting that. And omg is the sex great, lol!! Can't forget that small detail!!! I love how when he looks me in the eye, in intimate moments or when we share an inside joke around others, I can see his love for me, I can feel it, too. Which is nice, because he's very guarded with his heart. I love how he starts breathing a bit faster when I kiss him!! :-)

Lucky

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Registered: 10-06-2003
Thu, 11-13-2003 - 2:21pm
i'm jealous. ya'll sound like you have such a great connection with your om/mm. i wish i could meet om to know.
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Thu, 11-13-2003 - 2:24pm
Goody, Goody, I hope I don't bore you all. My MM is my gentle giant, 6'4 about 260lbs. He's funny, kind, thoughtful and extremly intelligent. During the last year I was in an accident and had to have surgery. When I told him about my symtoms, he explained all that was happening to me (in layman's terms). When I was in the hospital, he called me several times before and after. He came to my home and brought me some of his home made soup. We love to exchange recipes and gardening tips. He always makes sure I am well taken care of sexually and emotionally. He's not the jealous type and I love that too. If anything when we're out with our group of friends and the other men are flirting with me. He gets a charge out of it. To me that's Great confidence and makes him all the more sexy!It's funny because I love the way he treats his W. It really is a pleasure to see him and his attentiveness towards her after 19 years of marriage. OK, now I have to go see him today! :):) NMR
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Registered: 10-23-2003
Thu, 11-13-2003 - 2:29pm
HHHHmmmmm, I wonder why Im sitting here struggling with trying to even start a list about all the things I love about my OM....sad but true, I think Ive forgotten...ugh

cl-liberalgirl

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Thu, 11-13-2003 - 2:31pm
love post like this my mm is englishmen like my name here.my mm is very sexy he has those green eyes and special smile he has just for me. and his british accent awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww l can listen to him forever.he also very good loving man and love when has told me he loves me.hugs kimmy
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