Logistical Question: Where do you go?

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Registered: 11-25-2003
Logistical Question: Where do you go?
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Sat, 03-06-2004 - 11:29am
I'm just curious about where and how you meet up with your OM/OW? I see mine at work everyday, but obviously we can't play there. The times we have gotten together we have gone to a hotel - usually at least 30 minutes from where we live and work. It's getting really expensive!!! I don't think either of us would be comfortable with going to our own houses, but I'm wondering if any of you married folk out there do that. Where else do people go? Oh - and who pays for the hotels usually? So far my MM has paid for them all because he has more "disposable income" than me. (My H would notice if cash came up missing out of our account like that) I feel kind of bad about that, but I'm not sure what else to do.
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Registered: 01-31-2004
Sat, 03-06-2004 - 11:51am
we typically do "it" in the car! haha. If my car could only talk. We've never been to a hotel, I've been to his house once (and that was very uncomfortable) sometimes we get to play at his work on weekends when no one is around!
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Sat, 03-06-2004 - 3:27pm
We've only had a few car "touch-feely" sessions when we didn't have alot of time, like an hour or less. But that makes me a little nervous, just imagine the explaining you'd have to do if someone caught you at it!! And there is no way I would bring him to my home, the street has eyes if you know what I mean. As for his home, he lives in a different city, and he comes here to visit me, I never go over there.

But we generally go to our fav. hotel. He pays, I never have even offered. I just feel its the gentlemanly thing to do. Plus the fact that he owns a company and is fairly rich, compared to me there's no way I could afford to pay!! He also buys me any toys or lotions or whatever I think we would have fun with.

Here's a funny story (I told it on here before). We used to go to this one hotel. Well after we'd been there several weeks in a row (man, we were hot and heavy then!!) he went in to register one day, and came out and said the desk clerk gave us the room free that day, because it was our "10th visit there". We had a laugh over that.

Although, sorry to say, we switched hotels shortly after. We found one that was alot nicer, sometimes we even get the jacuzzi suite, although I have to say we've never made it into the jacuzzi yet!!

\dusty

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Registered: 12-23-2003
Sun, 03-07-2004 - 2:41pm
When we first started we had our fun outside by my car, but it got to scary for us. H might drive up!!! Now its either his house or mine. But yesterday we finally got a hotel room, so much easier, no worries about someone walking in. I left, went home, got in a shouting match with H, and went back for some more fun. Its so nice to be alone and to be able to things we couldnt do before, like walk around naked!! LOL!!!! But im sure that it will probably be the houses that we go to. Soon H will be leaving for a weekend and then the fun will really start! :)


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Registered: 02-22-2004
Tue, 03-09-2004 - 10:15pm
I'm in the same dilemma. Hotels seem too costly for only a few hours but then where do we go? I am M myself and meeting my MM for 'lunch' on Friday. I am racking my brains on where to go. I don't want anything at our homes as I could not deal with that. I want to keep this separate from my 'regular' public life.

Any other ideas anyone?

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Wed, 03-10-2004 - 8:49am

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Registered: 02-22-2004
Wed, 03-10-2004 - 8:56am
Boy- do I envy you! Since this will be my MM and mine's first time together, I wanted to make it something incredible for both- but REALLY earthshattering for him! His b-day is tomorrow and I promised his belated gift on Friday would be well worth the wait.

Ever brought along champagne,strawberries, etc.??? Nothing trashy, but I want seduction all the way...

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Registered: 07-09-2003
Wed, 03-10-2004 - 6:12pm
Well...I'm sure that I'm in the 'minority' here, but me and MM get together primarily at my house, and occasionally his. I know it's very risky, but we really don't have other options at this time - hotel/motels are out, I just know he won't even consider it. Perhaps when the weather warms up, we can meet at the forest preserve and go for a 'walk'. My H and his W both work during the day...me and MM both work evenings, but we usually only get together on Mondays. Our main concern with using each of our houses is, of course, nosey neighbors. That's why sometimes he will come over by me for a few weeks, and then we will switch...I'll go over by him. I figure if we try and keep the visits inconsistent, our nosey neighbors will get 'confused' and just shrug it off. It also helps that my H despises my neighbor, so he'd never believe a word uttered from his mouth anyways.

Bfly

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Registered: 06-24-2003
Wed, 03-10-2004 - 10:27pm

Another minority here too Bfly... MM and I will usually get together at my place... DH works during the day... and I'm a SAHM.

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Registered: 06-18-2003
Thu, 03-11-2004 - 7:49am
I just ended mine A but OM was staying with us and we did it here while h was asleep.Brave of me huh?

Renee